THE KSE BLOG

September 9, 2022.

Updated October 21, 2024.

This blog marks the  time period that gave rise to Kevin Samuels, which we called The Kevin Samuels Effect.  The Kevin Samuels Effect symbolizes the time when references, citations, and documentation became standard in male/ female conversations.  The book sometimes seems more academic and may not flow like a fictional book.  This blog is a way to further demonstrate how men are viewed and how society was forced to change.  Strong accusations can never be made without providing documented proof.  The Kevin Samuels Effect is synonymous with facts, data, and statistics.   There are dark forces behind wanting to see “Black” women behave badly and destroy themselves.  

With promoting strippers, the complete act of seduction has been reduced to a financial transaction.  The biggest fools in society often have the most money to spend on promiscuity.  In turn, low-level behavior cheapen women’s worth by enticing them to be immoral for money.  The Feminist Movement tricked Black women into ion thinking Sexual Liberation was being held from them.  Since the late 1960s, the mainstream media has slowly is encouraged Black people to behave ignorantly.  That is what The Kevin Samuels Effect is really about. Restoring Black (ADOS/ FBA, et cetera) people’s  image is what was done by Kevin  Samuels.  Research proves what was done to thwart “Black” people’s progress in America.  The influences were brought to Black people through the media, and the decisions were individual decisions based on a number of different factors.  Because of the imagery that portrays modern Black women as acculturated sex trade workers (i.e strippers, whores, prostitutes, call girls, sugar babies, and Reality TV actors). 

The concept of the High Value Man (HVM) can also be a source of failure because high percentages of women are aiming for a very small segment of the population (10 percent of men qualify as High Value Men, making 100 thousand dollars per year and above).  Most women will fail at getting these men, but while they are throwing themselves at them, they will be involved in transactional relationships.  Just because someone has financial resources does not mean they are ethical, moral, or good-natured.  Intelligence is talked about in the book The Kevin Samuels Effect. 

There is a section in the book, The Kevin Samuels Effect, talking about the way men’s advocacy groups are generally being called a collective of hate groups known as the “manosphere.”  This is where the genius of Kevin Samuels shines through, because he was careful when critiquing women.  A number of noteworthy scholars from major universities knew early on that Kevin Samuels had the communication skills necessary to deliver Black men’s message  by using the same data, research, and statistics that can stand on its own merit in the academic world.  There is no doubt that Kevin Samuels’ impact on mainstream society can rightfully be called The Kevin Samuels Effect.  “Blackness”  differentiates the arguments made by critics and detractors of the mainstream “manosphere” though.  The people (mainstream publications, et cetera) speaking against the so-called “manosphere,” overlook the fact that data, facts, and statistics must be the unbiased tools used to evaluate any discussion about gender.  People are duplicating Samuels’ methods, talking points, and continuing the conversation about Black men and Black women in America. The mainstream media has been watching, but can only make its self known when a perceived crack in the amour is exposed. That opportunity came when CNN published an article by AJ Willingham on September 8, 2022, titled, Misogynistic influencers are trending right now. Defusing their message is a complex task. 

There are misguided factions in all groups, yet “journalists” are trying to frame criticism of women as “hate speech.”  The speaking publicly must be careful with the words they choose to use, and that is the main issue.  An ideological war and power struggle is taking place, where Feminist Movement advocates are trying to gain control of U.S. society.  The people behind their support are the same people who have helped destroy Black men’s collective image for the past 100 years.  No one said anything about that though, which is why much of what is being said in the media’s Gender War can be seem for what it is.

There is no need to ask the same questions that Kevin Samuels asked, because he was smart enough to allow women to answer those questions directly and demonstrate what their life objectives were. Those dialogues were the questions and answers that  the world needed to hear, because women were speaking for themselves.  Unfortunately, we have allowed the Black race’s (ADOS/FBA) collective image to become a dysfunctional form of sexual self-expression. On the other hand, women want the same level of self-expression that males demonstrate in society.   Unlike the racist depictions from the past, Black people now voluntarily participate in creating imagery filled with vice and uncultured behavior.  Chastity has always been a respected virtue among ADOS/ FBA people, but the mainstream media is projecting a completely different image of “Black America” now. 

The Feminist Movement told women that their bodies were theirs to do as they pleased,  but feminists proved that they did not care about the future consequences for many women who did not want to be portrayed as though all women are nothing more than   prostitutes.  Ideally, men do not want to marry women with extensive sexual histories, although they will gladly have sex with those same women regularly. 

In the past, marriage was a requirement before sexual intimacy took place, and women were expected to be virgins.  Realistically, most modern unmarried women are not  virgins, but the total number of their sexual partners is expected to be kept low. Due to mainstream media’s influence, those norms are changing.

Those who control the mainstream media sought to stifle  post-1960s society and used television, motion pictures, and radio to dictate how sexual relationships should develop and unfold.  Independent artists, publishing companies, and record labels began to sell explicit material.  The public responded by buying explicit content and it has been increasing for the last 70 years (Roth v.  States). 

The 2 Live Crew was was groundbreaking in the level of profanity their Rap songs contained in the mid-1980s.

The song “WAP” was a chart-topping hit.

Independent label Luke Records and the 2 Live Crew began to shock America in 1987 with explicit Rap songs.

Lower moral expectations  are a result of the changes made beginning the 1950s and 1960s by the Sexual Revolution, Sexual Liberation Movement a/k/a the Women’s Liberation Movement.  Currently, a great emphasis is placed on economics before intelligence. As a result, men and women chose partners that they should not ever become sexually intimate with. Someone with a good job and finances can be a complete fool, but if he remains passive and agreeable long enough, a modern women might have  sex with him. Because there might not be any true physical attraction to that male, the relationship will not last long. Intelligent compatibility is normal, but in many people choose the reality of economic stability.

Modern women did not see that the Feminist Movement would reduce them to the sexual objects that they claimed they no longer wanted to be.  Thanks to current mainstream culture, women’s sexual expression has no boundaries.  Logic is not consistently being used by young women, regardless of their formal education, advanced college degrees, and good jobs.  The morals that sex trade workers exhibit are expected from all women in U.S. society today.  Another problem is that there is no Black (ADOS/ FBA) community presence that properly criticizes uncivil behavior and the media images that networks like Black Entertainment Television (BET) are allowed to perpetuate. BET should be boycotted by organizations like the NAACP.  Their silence makes them a part of the problem.  Modern Black women are not whores and should not depicted that way by the mainstream media.

The majority of Black males in modern society only possess a basic level of cultural intelligence. They lack the worldview of those who were a part of the Civil Rights Movement and the Black Power Movement.  Because of the breakdown of the Black community, it is common for women to have children out-of-wedlock with no fear of embarrassment.  The Black  community has  inadequate  leadership and the Black men in public positions are unqualified to properly lead. They are afraid that Caucasians will do the same thing that happened to Reverend Martin Luther King and Malcolm X. 

In intimate relationships, intellect and applied knowledge is supposed to be a requirement for Black men and Black women.  Instead, the values of promiscuity have been promoted by the  mainstream media without enough backlash.   For over a decade, TV shows like Real Housewives of Atlanta have been the template for how Black American relationships were supposed to be.  The focus is on a louder, more aggressive and masculine woman and a passive husband.  He might argue, but the women on these shows are the leaders and American women have followed that example in the way they conduct their own relationships.  The other series that women follow is Basketball Wives.  The irony is the fact that some of the women on that show were never wives.  They were “baby mamas.”  We have reached a place where adults have the same mental attitude as teens.  Fifty year old women are conducting themselves like teenagers, even when they are on the verge of menopause. Youth’s lack of wisdom has place a level of sexual expectation on adult women that they can never meet.  At a time when middle-aged women are supposed to raising families, they are being told by the mainstream media to be sexually promiscuous sex addicts.

The Black Community and modern Black women are encouraged to have the same values are sex trade workers: prostitutes, strippers, and call girls, pornography actors.  The media pays entertainers like Cardi B and Beyoncé Knowles-Carter and many others to push these negative messages of promiscuity to the Black community. Many of the Black males in the music industry are doing the same thing, lacking the balance that provides both sides of life.  Modern Black women are encouraged to do the same thing, but at a more sophisticated level.  The quest for a High Value Man is often an intricate exchange of resources, where women trade sexual access for the luxurious lifestyles and financial stability that High Earning Males seem to provide. The people who benefit from those situations are a fraction of the population, yet these are the standards that modern society is prodded to gravitate toward.  In the case of women like the Real Housewives of Atlanta, it is easy for women to imitate foul-mouthed, weave-wearing masculine women.  The people responsible for projecting these images are not Black people. The TV show’s producers and the networks who finance that trash are two different  entities.  The Black community is encouraging to be delusional and backward for other people’s amusement

The push from the Feminist Movement in conjunction with the LGBTQ Movement in pushing a level of hedonism that would make the ancient Roman Empire’s rulers blush with shame.

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Everyday People

August 30, 2022

The Kevin Samuels Effect, not to be confused with the book of the same name, The Kevin Samuels Effect by Muzahraf Fahim makes it clear that there is nothing wrong with being an average man or women.   With that being said, people like to base their lives on what they see in the mainstream media.   The glamour and opulent lifestyles broadcast continuously on network television, cable TV, and digital media are what people are drawn to, while ignoring other aspects of life that provide true fulfillment.  Kevin Samuels focused on High Value Men (HVM) because that is the main topic Black women wanted to hear about. Until The Kevin Samuels Effect, the Black community focused on modern Black women’s lives and what qualities they said Black men should want in Black women.  In following those metrics, that is what Samuels decided to talk about the most.  On an everyday level, a lot of people are accepting the fact that reality is eminent. Reality is for sure, and COVID-19 showed the world how challenging life can be.  

Little girls grow up wanting to be princesses and queens, and in order to fulfill those dreams, they need men with financial resources. In 1968, Sly and The Family Stone released the song, Everyday People.  That song typified the 1960s Social Revolution that was taking place in America.  When Sly and The Family Stone  released the 1969 song, Everybody Is a Star, the lyrics spoke to an era, saying, “I love you for who you are, not the one you feel you need to be.”  As described  in Sly and The Family Stone’s single, Everybody is a Star,  Black people just wanted to be treated fairly, like everyone else in America did. At the street level, we are seeing changes, because the truth about the Black community is talked about in a different way.  Both Black men and Black women are being scrutinized now, unlike before when Black men were the only ones being intensely critiqued.

Thousands of modern Black American women have gained  access to the accoutrements that signal material success for themselves like never before. These are single women, and they chose jobs and college degrees, instead of also being with husbands. Kevin Samuels talked about how there are two-million more Black women than Black men. With that being true, Black men have almost six-hundred thousand marriages than Black women, which proves that Black men are not the problem.   For most of them, that will not be enough  to sustain their lives and we all know why. Each day, more Black women from all socio-economic strata are beginning to realize that they overlooked Black men’s value, and America is witnessing the effects of this mistake. Real people are beginning to behave realistically.  Little by little, it is happening more.  

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Black Women’s Rise to Power in the Labor Market

August 27, 2022

Informative books do not sell like the Urban Street Fiction genre does.  The academic scholars behind Kevin Samuels’ research, data, and statistics knew that his presentation was going to launch Black Masculinist Studies into the mainstream media.  Entertainment  always outsells educational information.  The truth about what people should be focused on is coming from male American Descendants of Slavery, because it has to be that way.  The ‘land of opportunity’ distorts people’s vision sometimes, and it took The Kevin Samuels Effect to bring clarity to the Black community.    

This blog is meant to clarify some of what is stated in The Kevin Samuels Effect by Muzahraf Fahim. Books about the plight of Black American males are not new.  Tommy J. Curry’s book The Man-Not: Race, Class, Genre, and the Dilemmas of Black Manhood. While celebrated in the academic world, informative books about Black men’s lives in America are overlooked.  Kevin Samuels changed the way women look at Black men.  Part of the reason is because Black women wanted to know how to attract High Value Men.  The good news is that modern women now know what Black High Value Men want from Black women.  Beyond what Black men want, Black women were told the truth and Kevin Samuels has been recognized for being that message to mainstream America.  U.S. society has lied to Black women and told them that there were not any consequences for bad decisions. The worst decision modern Black women made about Black men was in expecting everything  and giving nothing in return.  Modern women were convinced that sex was enough, and that if a Black man could not provide a luxurious life, he had no value.

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Black Women’s Rise to Power in the Labor Market

August 29, 2022

Informative books do not sell like the Urban Street Fiction genre does.  The academic scholars behind Kevin Samuels’ research, data, and statistics knew that his presentation was going to launch Black Masculinist Studies into the mainstream media.  Entertainment  always outsells educational information.  The truth about what people should be focused on is coming from male American Descendants of Slavery, because it has to be that way.  The ‘land of opportunity’ distorts people’s vision sometimes, and it took The Kevin Samuels Effect to bring clarity to the Black community.    

This blog is meant to clarify some of what is stated in The Kevin Samuels Effect by Muzahraf Fahim. Books about the plight of Black American males are not new.  Tommy J. Curry’s book The Man-Not: Race, Class, Genre, and the Dilemmas of Black Manhood. While celebrated in the academic world, informative books about Black men’s lives in America are overlooked.  Kevin Samuels changed the way women look at Black men.  Part of the reason is because Black women wanted to know how to attract High Value Men.  The good news is that modern women now know what Black High Value Men want from Black women.  Beyond what Black men want, Black women are being told the truth about life.  U.S. society has lied to Black women and told them that there were not consequences for bad decisions. 

This blog includes 100 bonus pages.  The actual book, The Kevin Samuels Effect,  includes a lot of data and reference material. That was done, because there is some information there that readers might want to do further research on.  We mention other scholars because they are thorough in the way the presented the history of Black women’s independence.  This book, The Kevin Samuels Effect, touches on  the lack of information about America’s systematic involvement is dividing Black men and Black women. That division is what caused the downfall of the Black community as we know it today. 

Since the 1950s, two generations of women were told to focus on jobs and college degrees, so they did not need to depend on a man.  U.S. society projected continuous images of Black men who were untrustworthy, saying that the majority of Black men were unreliable and untrustworthy.  The book, The Kevin Samuels Effect by Muzahraf Fahim emphasized the way the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) and Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) “possibly” used operatives to promote the mainstream Feminist Movement to Black women.  There is very little information about this topic, and the information exists.  More importantly, modern Black women were tricked by Caucasian feminists, and then Black women tried to recover from that trickery by forming the National Black Feminist Organization (NBFO) in 1973. Before then, Black women like Shirley Chisholm joined Caucasian feminists in founding the National Women’s Political Caucus (NWPC) in 1971.  The justification for joining with Caucasian women was that the Civil Rights Movement and the Black Power Movement were completely patriarchal, which was a lie.   This is where law enforcement allegedly used Caucasian women  to put a wedge between Black men and Black women.  Kevin Samuels did not over emphasize this information, but anyone who examines it will see who the true culprits of destroying the Black community were. 

Many groups contributed to the downfall of the Black community, but not enough emphasis is placed on the mainstream feminists who infiltrated and changed what feminist were fighting for.    The movie Judas and the Black Messiah showed the way the Illinois Chapter of the Black Panther Party was infiltrated by the FBI, but nothing is ever said about the backgrounds of some of the mainstream feminists who we never question.  Even radical (Caucasian) feminists questioned women like Gloria Steinem and forced her to admit that she worked for a program that was sponsored by the CIA.  All of this information is known, but Black women do not know where they got their version of feminism from. 

Black America is taught and encouraged to celebrate criminality.  The mainstream media makes criminals Black people’s heroes.  The U.S. mainstream media is a joke and anyone who turns their television off for six months will see something that they do not see normally.

The Civil Rights Act of 1964, Title VII was celebrated as a win for Black people in America.  Something much different ended up happening though.  Black women could be counted as ideal minority hires in the U.S. labor market.  Long before Kevin Samuels rose in popularity, many Black men knew that Black women could be used against Black men in the labor force.  They could be counted as “minorities” in two categories: women and “African-American.”  When this was discussed with women, they listened but have never protested against that advantage and they still do not say anything about it today.  Maybe the extra advantage was quietly accepted to right the wrongs that came from years of discrimination.  For the last 50 years, women have said very little to bring balance to inner-city households by making sure men were given opportunities in the workforce that made up for them not having the status of  being “two minorities.” 

The Kevin Samuels Effect exposed the fact that modern Black women have been encouraged to compete (i.e. be masculine) against Black men in the workforce and never want to see a man in a position of power over them. This is why so many Black women always say they can’t find Black men who earn enough money to marry or that Black men are intimated by their success. The book, The Kevin Samuels Effect points out how America systematically pits Black men and Black women against each other, in order to cripple Black communities.  Women value their jobs as a way to hold on to the “independence” that feminists encourage.  Modern Black women have been taught by the mainstream Feminist Movement and the Womanist Movement to not trust Black men that they do not even know.  Modern Black women come into intimate relationships and potential marriages with a negative view of Black men.  The post-Gender War and The Kevin Samuels Effect have changed the way we see the world now.  Modern Black women chose jobs and college degrees over husbands, which has caused major problems.  Intelligent Black men never resented women for their success in the labor market, because Black communities have always had high numbers of women in the workforce.  As the FBI encouraged the systematic neutralization of black leadership, any Black man with leadership qualities was monitored and usually controlled.

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Image, Style, and  Speaking the Truth About Intimate Relationships in America

August 28, 2022

Kevin Samuels rose to prominence in early 2020 by adding a stylish approach to facts, data, and statistics. Modern American culture is fascinated with luxury lifestyles and wealth and modern women wanted to know how they could attract and marry a High Value Man.    The key to Mr. Samuels’ rise was based on a few different factors.  One was the murder of George Floyd in 2020 and the attention it placed on Black men in America.  Secondly, the media image that Kevin Samuels projected of himself drew attention, because it symbolized affluence. Third, it was the way he presented himself as the “High Value Man whisperer,” explaining what High Value Men expected from women.  Before Kevin Samuels’ popularity, modern women took it upon themselves to identify and interpret what men wanted in women. Modern women assumed that their jobs and college degrees added to their Sexual Market Value, and Kevin Samuels clarified that men based their selection on physical attraction. Next, men measure a woman’s willingness to align herself with that  man’s leadership. 

Before The Kevin Samuels Effect, the words “submissive” could never be spoken by American men, especially not by American Black men.  All of this happened within the context of COVID-19 and the environmental lock-down created by the pandemic. (Over the course of the last week, a very popular public figure was banned from Facebook and Instagram for alleged remarks made about women.  The statements were allegedly taken out of context, but the ban points to a larger issue.  People must be careful about what they said in America’s “politically correct,’ #MeTooMovement environment.)  Protecting one’s image is necessary at all times an.  For male American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS/FBA), their image was systematically and perpetually destroyed over the last 50 years.  Kevin  Samuels told Black women that a natural order exists in marriages, which is what men demand.  Samuels said to Black women, “The children answer to you (the woman), you answer to me, and I answer to God.”

After George Floyd was murdered in Minneapolis, Minnesota in 2020, YouTube created a program that recognized “Black” content creators and gave them the opportunity to be highlighted favorably, in contrast to the way “Black” men are negatively portrayed in American society.  Kevin Samuels was a part of YouTube’s recognition, so he continued to speak about public imagery.  In that way, Samuels became his own best client.  At a time when everyone was working from home wearing yoga pants, pajamas, and  other kinds of workout clothes, Kevin Samuels was broadcasting his shows on different digital platforms wearing suits or stylish casual clothing right out of the pages of GQ  and Esquire magazine.  Kevin Samuels was very careful in how he addressed women’s issues, and his example is now known around the world as The Kevin Samuels Effect. Slight Sleep Media was the first to publish a book with that title, because we saw the lasting impact that his presentation would have on Black men’s lives.

There are men and women waging a war of words against each other, and delivering their message in a negative way.  There are a lot of people who felt like Kevin Samuels did not include them in his rise to fortune and fame.  Some of those people would have caused great harm to men’s rights advocacy.  Those people would have been used to show Kevin Samuel’s association with “misogyny.”  Other men who were rising in mainstream popularity were quickly, and sometimes quietly banned, because their approach was not precise.  Kevin Samuels enjoyed a certain level of protection, but he was also paying attention to what he could say.  Again, YouTube knew who he was, and gave him a certain amount of leeway because he understood how to present the information that he was sharing.  The key was the data, research, and statistics that he was using to make his arguments.  The goal was not to destroy Black women, but to make them aware of where they stood in society and how they could become better.

Intimate relationships within the Black community have declined for some very basic reasons.  People changed their priorities and listened to outside forces. Men are the new faces of power in the post-Gender War era in America, and are summoned to acknowledge what Kevin Samuels knew to do.  That is why Slight Sleep Media published the book, The Kevin Samuels Effect by Muzahraf Fahim. Not everything that Kevin Samuels was correct, but the imagery that he applied in addressing intimate relationships was enough to change the trajectory of Black men’s public image in America.  Before Kevin Samuels, most Black men who were hired and allowed to speak to women pandered and lied to women. All women have a chance to succeed in marriage and intimate relationships.  The important factor is accurately measuring one’s Sexual Market Value (SMV) and managing that information accordingly.  Now, some of those same men have been compelled to speak the truth.  Other public figures and so-called Black leaders are indirectly being pressured to speak up, because Kevin Samuels knew to speak about modern women.

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Virgin (Minds) and the Hypersexual Era in America

August 25, 2022

During the 1960s, Feminist Movement members heavily promoted sexual promiscuity in America, under the guise of freedom.  Sexual Liberation or Women’s Liberation was the sexual extension of the mainstream Women’s Rights Movement and the Feminist Movement.  All of these women’s “movements” were loosely related to each other and sought different rights and accompanying legislation.  The oldest and most powerful example of women seeking the right make their own decisions over their bodies is prostitution. The main figures in the musical recording industry who promote sexual freedom are acts like Beyonce, Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion, and the City Girls. Their message is founded in the Feminist Movement and the Sexual Liberation Movement. What was once relegated to sex trade work (prostitution) is now promoted as mainstream popular culture. 

Conflicts exist, because men do not wholeheartedly want to marry women with morals that run parallel with sex trade workers  and prostitution.  Males will always welcome the freedom of acquiring non-committal sex, but those same women can not turn around later and want to be treated like morally upright women. Traditional marriage was a consummation of religiosity, purity, and new beginnings.  By the 1960s, Feminists, along with people like Alfred Kinsey and Hugh Hefner began to promote sexual intimacy among single people.  There was a time when prostitutes were used, to not corrupt the morals of wives. Transitioning from a sexually liberating single life does not translate into marriages, because men control access to marriage.  Men are expected to ask women to marry them.  Another issue is the way women want marriage, but often prefer modern partnerships that call for mutual cooperation and decision-making.  Modern women are not automatically entering marriages with the intention of being a man’s helpmate and second-in-charge.  In women’s defense, many males are not qualified to lead, just based on their male gender status.  Leadership requires knowledge and a level of vision that many males lack today.

Men do not want to marry women who have the same number of sexual partners as active prostitutes.  Not all prostitutes have hundreds of sexual partners.  High Value Men and other men of quality do not want women who draw the same kind of energy that prostitutes draw.  Women who welcome the kind of attention that sex trade workers enjoy are not the kind of women most men want to marry.  Modern women have Hot Girl Summers throughout the twenties and then change their behavior and acquire a great husband at thirty years old.  That is not happening, which is why younger women are asking what they should do.  Younger women see the mistakes that the generation before them made and are seeking to change. 

Men still value virgins, although the modern Feminist Movement downplays virginity.  In  some ways, virginity is also an ideology.  For example, women who take their intimate bonds seriously are valued by intelligent men.  Having a lot of sexual partners is not something that increases women’s Sexual Market Value, although the Feminist Movement’s ideology would  not agree. Kevin Samuels asked women to name a product that increases in value with age and use.  There are none. Sexual Market Value decreases over time. The difference between males and females is that males have slightly more time to reproduce. 

Now we see high numbers of women in their late twenties and early thirties who have  amassed high numbers of sexual partners. The main problem is that fact that women are not taught to see why most males are ignorant and a waste of time.  These males offer little intellectually, and reduce intimate  relationships to direct or indirect financial exchanges.  Dinner dates and public outings are an implied means of exchange for sex. Publications like Cosmopolitan magazine told modern women that they could behave sexually like males and still find husbands, which is not true. Most men care about a woman’s past sexual partners, because in some cases that history will come back to haunt that man and his new family.  Bonds exist through sex, yet the Feminist Movement tried to create a way to view sex as a casual act. Modern women will have sex, yet refuse to submit to the truth that her sexual partner is expressing.   Those are products of the Feminist Movement. 

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Modern Black Women and Sympathetic (Male Simp) Culture

August 23, 2022

Updated August 24, 2022

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Timing and Life’s Decisions

August 22, 2022

Kevin Samuels published a digital broadcast on Youtube that was originally streamed from his Instagram Live account on March 21, 2021, Do Modern Women Give Good Relationship Advice? A caller of the Instagram Live broadcast happened to be Kendra G, radio show host of WGCI 107.5 FM in Chicago. By this point in his career, Mr. Samuels’ popularity had become legendary, as mainstream celebrities began to acknowledge him.  Kendra G’s  own show on Instagram, Singles Live! has continued to rise in popularity, especially after Kevin Samuels’ demise.  It is no secret that she uses many of his talking points and has reshaped her interviewing style based on Kevin Samuels’ broadcast style.  The true irony is the fact that Kendra G was very defiant  and passive-aggressive in her 2021 interview with Kevin Samuels, especially when asked basic questions about the possibility of her ever being married. Unfortunately, her behavior was called very typical of many Black women in the corporate world. As it related to Kevin Samuels’ talking points and the potential of her finding the kind of husband she wants, Kendra G hypothetically asked, “Why is it over for me?” Kevin Samuels  told her why her changes of finding the kind of husband she wants were almost zero.  The mistake Kendra G, and many other Black women make, is thinking that Black men hope and pray that Black women fail. 

Speaking the truth is not the same as hoping someone fails.  The whole Kendra G interview reiterated points that Kevin Samuels has made in the past about Black women who mismanage their prime reproductive years.  Mr. Samuels explained how, “Men control access to marriage. And one of the major reasons that  older women are getting passed over for younger women is you’re too masculine, you’re too bossy, you’re too opinionated. That works well in the corporate world, when you are making other people successful and rich, but it does not work well when you’re trying to connect with a man.”  This, and points like these, prove why the Gender War between Black men and Black women is over.  The facts speak for themselves on both sides of the equation.  In response, many women like to generally mention the Black male’s negative actions, which still fails to offset facts about Black women and the Black community.  Modern women want to ask, “What about negative men?”  Men are regularly critiqued, but this is the first time in more than 50 years where modern Black women are being told the truth.  Before then, mainstream media and most public figures were too busy selling women lies (and dreams)  and knew to never tell them the truth.  Speaking the truth carries a high price, and very few Black men were prepared to pay that cost.  Mainstream media outlets did not want the truth spoken, because they were too busy manipulating the Black Community by convincing Black women that their did not need Black men.  Now the world is being forced to admit how sad it was to see that lie sold as though it was a fact.  The Black women who bought that lie will have to pay the ultimate price: many of them will never have husbands and traditional family households.

Some of the problems that Black women face are repairable, which is why they should be talked about.  That is the reason why Kevin Samuels was so effective is speaking about those issues.  The Kevin Samuels Effect does just that, and we saw the benefit of expanding the message to all situations where the truth needed to be said. Society had gotten to the point where Black men were not allowed to speak honestly to Black women.  How is that possible?  U.S. Domestic Policies are written in a way that favors Black women and children.  Male American Descendants of Slavery/ Foundational Black Americans, et cetera have not be written into U.S. Domestic Policies since the 1960s. That is another issue, so it is best to stay with the topic of why most Black women have a very small chance of having the husbands that they want.  Mr. Samuels continued, “Why is it over for many women your age? One,  because your income has risen, and females have evolved (evolutionary biology) it says that women want men to have at least what they (women) have. The older you get, the more money you make, the more education you have, the more resources you get, thereby inflating your estimation of yourself. But that estimation is not, IS NOT, your Sexual Marketplace Value. It (SMV) is going down (decreasing)!”  Kendra G was very argumentative, defiant, and impractical in her responses to Kevin Samuels.  One of the most important points Kevin Samuels made to Kendra G was that women’s value has a shelf life. 

The main point was finalized when Kevin Samuels said, “Marriage is a practical choice…in order for all of that (Kendra G’s marriage requirements) to happen, you have to have a man that you deem worthy propose to you. That man, if he could meet your high standards, he could meet a lot of other women’s high standards as well. And here’s the problem: there are hundreds of you. Thousands of you. Why should he pick you over the one who can carry her own babies at twenty-four, or twenty-five, or twenty-six, who are willing to get on his program, who don’t have as many expectations as a woman your (Kendra G was forty-one years old when this interview took place). Kendra G’s response was, “If he feels the way you’re feeling, he’s not the man for me, and I have no problem with that.”  Kevin Samuels called her response Tyler Perry-esque and passive-aggressive S.I.G.N. (shame, insults, guilt, and the need to be right) language.  There is not a celebration of exposing Kendra G for who she is or is not.  She is in the same position of thousands of other women.  Modern Black women are encouraged to focus on jobs and being independent from men that they eventually ruin their chances of being wives in traditional families. 

We can take a close look at the Black women who are supposed to be called successful and there are thousands of these women who have matured beyond their childbearing years and do not have husbands or traditional families.  A lot of bickering back-and-forth is taking place between Black males and Black females, which is pointless.  The facts, data, and accurate statistics tell the whole story of what has happened over the last 60 years.  Modern Black women were taught to pursue jobs and formal education in a way that lacks balance, because women of other nationalities have managed to get those degrees and still be in traditional marriages.  The point of critiquing modern Black women is over, because  Mr. Samuels provided enough archived information about the state of Black families for all to see and hear.  Unfortunately, Kendra G is much like the women she brings on her Singles Live! show.  They will all have a difficult time finding husbands and having traditional families.  Time will show if Black women will be able to change the course of their lives.  For some of them, it is already too late, and there is no celebration in that. 

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The Gender War and the Ultimate Definition of a “Black” Man

August 19, 2022

The male American Descendant of Slavery (ADOS) was someone who America taught Black women that they did not need to respect.  That notion was false, and The Kevin Samuels Effect proved why.  Take a look at how Hollywood and the mainstream media projects the “Black” male image (i.e. Hollywood (P-Valley, etc.), Black Entertainment Television, and the major label-dominated music industry.   Kevin Samuels brought a level of flair, along with the data, statistics, and research that a number of little-known Black scholars shared with him.  U.S. policymakers and major corporations appear to be in partnership with LGBT/ GLAAD and the Feminist Movement to destroy heterosexual male American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS) imagery.  These factors, and others like, them encourage modern Black women to not have any respect for Black men.  The hate is evident. 

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September 14, 2020’s broadcast of Kevin Samuel’s show Average Looking & Lazy: Do They Want High Value Men or Just The Lifestyle? was an example of questions and observations that the majority of mainstream public figures would never say out loud.  He asked women why they had the nerve to think, to feel that they get a High Value Man.  “You don’t even want the man around. You want the car, the home, the credit cards, the bank accounts; you want all  the stuff that goes along with it, except the man…They want children from him, but these children in her mind are not his. They are  hers; it’s all hers…at what stage of human development is this acceptable?”  It has been explained that the Gender War is over.  With that win, Black men are supposed to display the positive images that represent who they really are.  Their positive actions will  be enough to disprove the lies that U.S. policymakers and infiltrators of the Feminist Movement promoted for the last 50 years, because of The Kevin Samuels Effect.  Feminists took a particular stance against masculinity, but a very specific group of feminists brought a completely different agenda to the mainstream Feminist Movement.  That is what is emphasized by the book The Kevin Samuels Effect by Muzahraf Fahim.

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The ultimate objective of the mainstream Feminist Movement was to destroy the male image. In particular, the Black man’s image was destroyed as an extension of what J. Edgar Hoover’s FBI set out to do during the late 1960s and 1970s.  The Civil Rights Movement and the Black Power Movement were attacked in a way that is never spoken about in mainstream media.  Feminism was used as a weapon, after Caucasian mainstream feminists convinced joined with Black women leaders and begin the Great Divide that would continue for 50 years.  Kevin Samuels had no idea that by using data, statistics, and research, he ended up defeating the mainstream Feminist Movement faction that was being used to destroy Black men’s image.  There are at least three myths that were regularly repeated worldwide to attack Black men’s credibility as responsible men.  Professional college-educated modern Black women were encouraged to say that there were not any good Black men available.  The myth is that most Black men have a lot of children.  Kevin Samuels used a statistic that said 54 percent of Black men are childless.  The U.S. Census Bureau put out a press release titled, Census Bureau Releases First Ever Report on Men’s Fertility, June 13, 2019 stated that, “Among men ages 20 to 29, 21.2% of white men, 24.9% of black men, 12.4% of Asian men, and 29.4% of Hispanic men are fathers.”  The other popular myths are that most Black men do not earn enough money to be with Black women.  It is stated in an earlier post of this blog that over 55 percent of Black men are in the middle class.  American Enterprise Institute is the source of the data.   The report titled,  by W. Bradford Wilcox, Wendy Wang, and  Ronald Mincy stated that, “Black men’s economic standing. More than one-in-two black men (57%) have made it into the middle class or higher as adults today, up from 38% in 1960, according to a new analysis of Census data. And the share of black men who are poor has fallen from 41% in 1960 to 18% in 2016. So, a substantial share of black men in America are realizing the American Dream—at least financially—and a clear majority are not poor.” For the last three years, the world has been confronted with how Black men are treated in America and portrayed as criminals. While Black American incarceration rates are abnormally high, some of the root causes of crime and incarceration are policy based.

The data, statistics, and accurate research that Kevin Samuels emphasized and exposed why the Gender War is over and had been won by men.  Men did not have the power to decide that college degrees and jobs were more important than traditional families.  Modern Black women were convinced that their jobs and college degrees were more important than traditional Black families.  From those Black families we get Black communities.  The Gender War is over, because we are already seeing an increase in women living with women (or pets), because they have not been taught how to communicate with Black men. The women in “No Man’s Land” (from ages 36-60 years old) were told that they were the prize and did not have to do anything to get a husband.  Modern women are encouraged to display masculine traits like competing with men, while domesticity and femininity are ridiculed by followers of the Feminist Movement.  This is where we see the complete defeat.  Modern women are the proof, and the results are not having husbands and dying alone, especially for Black women. 

Can women reverse this trend of remaining unmarried for  their entire lives and dying alone?  Of course, but it takes an amount of work that modern women have been taught to reject.  They will take instructions from their corporate bosses and will diligently take notes from college professors for college degrees. But they will not take instructions from potential Black husbands. For the last 50 years, modern Black women were convinced to ignore the penalty of waiting to marry after 30 years old.  That is because most women will not ever get married, especially since they often wait until they reach their thirties to make themselves available for marriage.  Modern women have been taught that they do not have to do anything to earn husbands, except show up. Black women were known for working and raising families simultaneously, yet modern Black women think they are supposed to live in luxury after they are married.  Some do, but the average woman will have to work her entire life, like most Black women have always done. 

Whenever Black women learn to identify and respect intelligent Black men, that will be a step in the right direction.  Kevin Samuels brought research, data, and statistics to the world, and was suddenly gone.   All men are free to acknowledge The Kevin Samuels Effect, and Slight Sleep Media knew to chronicle the phenomenon, before Kevin Samuels passed away in May, 2022.  The truth is not going to ever go away.  The sky is the limit for intelligent Black men, especially when they conduct themselves with dignity and grace in the face of community despair. 

Effects of Post-Gender War America

The Black man in America is in a good position because he knows where he stands with the modern Black woman.  Men who are coming after Kevin Samuels are not afraid to relay accurate data, statistics, and research to women, in order to disprove the myths that the modern Feminist Movement has convinced Black women to embody.  Each day,  single Black women are growing older.  Men and women grow older daily, but men have more reproductive time than women do.  The Kevin Samuels Effect is in society now, and modern women know that the rhetoric that the modern Feminist Movement teaches is not real.  All eyes are on the Black man, and the way he conducts himself is important.  The unsung  researchers behind The Kevin Samuels Effect set off a phenomenon that has put male American Descendants of Slavery in a position of power.  Modern Black women have been taught to systematically disrespect Black men, and the men who know how to stay focused, accomplish beneficial tasks, and remain respectful shall win.  People around the world are discussing relationships and they are forced to address the points that Kevin Samuels brought to the forefront.  American domestic policy has been against male American Descendants of Slavery for the last 50 years.  Modern Black women were used by proxy to stop Black men’s progress.  That “progress” is being the head of traditional Black families.  Eighty percent of all Black children are born out-of-wedlock, which demonstrates how modern Black women do not want to answer to husbands.  Why would a Black women have a child with a man that she is not married to? It has become the norm, which is a sign of how dysfunctional the Black community has become.  Men are blamed for the high numbers of out-of-wedlock births, while women are not held accountable for having children out-of-wedlock like Black men are.

If male American Descendants of Slavery conduct themselves well and stay mindful of their public image,  their Gender War win will become a monumental moment in American history.  The mainstream media has sold the Black male image as a criminal for the last 50 years, and that era was exposed for being exploitative and borderline racist.  Thugs and gang members are regularly seen on TV, film, and digital platforms.  Upright, intelligent Black men are treated like they are invisible.  It does not matter though, because The Kevin Samuels Effect has placed a needed spotlight on “Black” men in America.  The men who are able to effectively relate the core talking points that comprise The Kevin Samuels Effect, the sky is the limit for those men.  Those men must be living productively and truthfully representing a positive image in their daily lives.  Doing this is what continues to demonstrate how and why the Gender War is over.  Intelligent Black women have been put on notice and many of them accept the truth about how they have been encouraged de-emphasize the importance of Black husbands and traditional Black families.  The Gender War is a loss for modern Black women because their alternatives are inferior to what intelligent Black men are.  Jobs, college degrees, and money alone have not fulfilled Black women’s lives over the past 50 years, proving that those things have not given modern Black women a better lives.  Women have become masculine to the point where they like the power and control that comes from earning corporate money for living like a male.   Black men do not realize that because of The Kevin Samuels Effect, they are being observed closely by Black women and U.S. society overall.  The Black male image is  on full display, and The Kevin Samuels Effect has given productive, intelligent Black men the advantage, which proves that the Gender War was modern Black women’s loss. 

The main determining factor that prevents modern women from ever being equal to men is time and their inability to perform many tasks that males can perform.  Women definitely are not physically stronger than women and the Feminist Movement thinks it is a good idea to make males less masculine, so they playing field becomes equal.  As soon as that happens, watch how other nations around the world will reach.  Military attacks will be imminent when American males can not longer physically match other nations military strength.  Women are selected by men based on their physical appearance and the Feminist Movement tries to shame men for something that is natural. Other factors are evaluated after physical appearance is observed.  Men have been held accountable forever, so any male who is not setting a good example in life is addressed.  Now that women are being address, life has changed and the veil of silence has been removed.  Kevin Samuels did that in a way that reached the mainstream media, although they are still keeping quiet about his impact.  Men are being quietly evaluated like never before, as a result of The Kevin Samuels Effect. Males who are American Descendants of Slavery are in the winning position, because they can ask U.S. domestic policymakers at every level of government why they let modern Black women to remain delusional for so long.  Why were American Descendants of Slavery ignored for so long.  It is a common answer:  U.S. policy has somewhat remained what it was since 1863.  Now, through the help of digital media, male American Descendants of Slavery (like Kevin Samuels) are able to expand their reach and achieve success like never before.  That success might only being addressing the way America projects images of “Black” men.  Black Masculinist  Studies scholars in academia knew to dress up the data, statistics, and research in a suit and tie, and Kevin Samuels because their vehicle to deliver the message about Black women’s unaccountability.  He also critiqued men, but no one was listening.  When women were addressed, it changed the modern world and The Kevin Samuels Effect is still growing every day. Women are different from men, but deserve equal opportunities to do equal tasks and the United States leads the world is providing those opportunities. 

The male American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS) must continue to improve and grow humbly. The truth can be spoken now, and The Kevin Samuels Effect is responsible   for that.  The way “Black” men project their image is critical, because the world is watching.  U.S. domestic policy must be addressed, but that will not happen in the way that it is supposed to happen right away. It might not ever happen, which is why “Black” men must conduct themselves accordingly.  They must be respectful and meet women’s energy accordingly. Kevin Samuels demonstrated how that is supposed to be done.  The Kevin Samuels Effect happened because no one thought one man could have the impact that he had on the modern world. The pandemic helped make it possible, since women were able to experience what the world would be like without technology to protect them if the world shut down.  The Gender War is over because American domestic policy has been exposed for being complicit in allowing women to live delusional lives. American mainstream media has censored Black men and prevented them  from having the ability to speak honestly at the mainstream level.  Mainstream media’s gatekeepers were saying they were real and proved otherwise.

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Propaganda Politics, Marriage, and Other Scenarios

August 16, 2022

On August 12, 2022 WGCI (Chicago, 107.5 FM) radio host Kendra G did an interview with entrepreneur James Hill about her Instagram show “Singles Live!” Kendra mentioned her own life experience, giving an example about the possibility of marriage.  She said, “As I’m becoming more successful myself, I actually don’t even know if I wanna’ get married, because of that one reason (i.e. asset protection) … this is why I love Oprah so much, because Oprah, at a time where it wasn’t as popular to have a “life partner” said the confinement of marriage wouldn’t work for her. So I am all about what works for you. And if you are a person that has assets, I definitely would protect that.” Financially secure women who marry men who have assets equal to their women do not have to worry about protecting their assets from failed marriages.  The Kevin Samuels Effect highlights the reasons why a lot of High Value Men would never select women like Oprah Winfrey or Kendra G, no disrespect to them though.  Most men do not make a woman’s finances a determining factor for marriage. Slight Sleep Media published Muzahraf Fahim’s book The Kevin Samuels Effect, realizing that the phenomenon of people speaking honestly about male and female interaction came to the forefront of society.  Kenda G is also an example of women who pursued college degrees and jobs, without prioritizing husbands. Now, women like her do not have traditional families. They have families consisting of cats or dogs or no one at all. 

Oprah Winfrey might be called the “patron saint” of women who did not form traditional families by having a husband and offspring (children). Kendra G is an example of what modern women should be careful of, because having a husband and children can be a priceless experience, if an intelligent hardworking man is at the center of that experience.  Many modern women’s parents suggested that their daughters pursue college degrees and jobs, before finding a husband. Kevin Samuels talked about the way modern women shunned the marriage choices that they could have had, because these women thought they could do better. Women like these often overestimate their actual sexual marketplace value/ physical attractiveness and wait for choices that will never come.  Some women never wanted to be married, but the majority of women who make that decision will live to regret not having a traditional family.  Oprah Winfrey is an example of what happened to modern Black women, after they decided to value jobs and college degrees over husbands and traditional families.  Kendra G and Oprah Winfrey do not need husbands to help them get though life financially, but women with regular incomes will need help.  Why would a woman with financial means get married, when they number one reason to get married is to produce children in a traditional family unit?  The Kevin Samuels Effect reached national notoriety by December, 2020. 

Greg Matos, PsyD penned an article in Psychology Today on August 9, 2022 titled The Rise of Lonely, Single Men.  This article and “research” study was not specific and is clearly a response to The Kevin Samuels Effect.  This article is a male feminist propaganda tool, and fortunately Black Studies scholars addressed this article’s flaws already.  Expectations about what men are supposed to be doing is something that is defined by women, which is a product of feminism’s rise.  This article is saying that men are the problem.  The number of women taking medication and seeing therapists is on the rise, but Matos did not mention this.  Men are making different choices, which is being called being “lonely.”  Relationships have changed, yet Matos defines male and female interaction from past definitions.  The Pew Research Center had already published an October 5, 2021 article Rising Share of U.S. Adults Are Living Without a Spouse or Partner makes something clear. For Black people, Black women are more likely to be “unpartnered” (62 percent), which proves that the media had been trying to formulate a response to The Kevin Samuels Effect. 

Men have to remember to remain cordial and gracious, as the spotlight has been placed on modern life, specifically Black women.  The Kevin Samuels Effect addressed the data, statistics, and research that pertains to Black communities in America. The myths about Black men were thoroughly debunked, and everyone in the world can now see that it is as if a reset button has been pressed in America. Although the Gender War is over, nothing formal has occurred.  Therefore, Black men must guide themselves through the ruins of ignorance that has been allowed to exist for decades. 

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Origins Behind the Gender War Between Black Men and Black Women

August 9, 2022

Updated August 13, 2022

The Slave Plantations of America’s past can be compared to modern corporations for man reasons. The Black men and women who work there are under the control of non-Black CEOs and managers who often coerce Black women into dedicating their lives to their jobs, instead of giving that level of dedication of Black husbands.  Black Power Movement throwback ideology might accuse Black people who work for White corporations of being “sell-outs.”  The reality is the fact that finances and economics are  necessities of life.  The problem is they way modern Black women are not able to balance jobs and families.  Modern Black women expect to be selected by High Value Men and live luxurious lifestyles. At the very least, modern Black women do not want to marry men who earn less income than they do. If modern Black women marry Black men who earn less than their wives, those Black men are less-respected.  Modern corporations call be compared to slave plantations for non-Caucasian people especially, because no one can own a job. Employees are replaceable, while owners control their destinies. They can not pass these jobs on to their offspring, and even if they are shareholders, the shares they own are not a majority amount.  For the last 50 years, American corporations have encouraged modern Black women to work at companies in ways that disrupt family life.  In the past, women worked their jobs and proudly went home to raise their families.  They went home to their husbands and children. The modern woman’s nurturing traits have been turned away from her husband/ family and squarely on her supervisor/ boss/ job. 

Not all male American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS) will be successful in life, especially in America.  Although the Gender War is over, very few men will be able to capitalize on the fact that the Gender War ended.  For those who persevere and have the qualities required to thrive, their new position as winners of the Gender War will be seen clearly.  What makes the win so clear?  Men now know that modern women have not been interested in forming traditional families for decades, especially Black women. The relationships (marriages) offered to men by modern women are used as a mechanism of control.  The  U.S. Family Court system favors women in child support proceedings and divorce decrees.  The Kevin Samuels Effect has made it clear what the results of women’s selfishness shall be.  Most of them will grow old and die alone.  We already know that this has always been the fate for many men.  Now, equality ensures that women have the independence to make poor choices like everyone else.  The Gender War was not without sacrifice.  Men must demonstrate focus, ingenuity, and utilize the data that comprises The Kevin Samuels Effect, in order to benefit from the results of the Gender War.  As time goes on, independent women will continue to face negative outcomes in life. The difference is the fact that modern women know the exact source of their failure.  The Gender War is over and men won because modern Black women fully realize that their college degrees and jobs are not equal, and definitely not superior to intelligent Black men.  U.S. domestic policy has been complicit in allowing modern Black women to make the worst choices possible in their lives.  One in four Black women will marry at least once in their lifetime, and almost 80 percent of all Black children are born to unwed, single Black women.  The whole world knows what is happening right before everyone’s eyes. 

What is another reason why the Gender War between Black men and Black women has been won by Black Men?  The Kevin Samuels Effect: statistics, accurate data, and statistics are being used to show the decline is Black women’s quality of life, as they try to exist without Black men in their lives.  In the mid-1980s, college-educated Black women began saying that there were not enough educated Black men available.  Data disproves that claim, because more almost 60 percent of Black men are in the middle-class.  The modern Feminist Movement taught Black women to claim that all of the “good” men were in jail or homosexual.  This was never true, but data was not used to formally disprove those claims like what is being proven now.  The eye-opener that women were not prepared for is the fact that men do not primarily evaluate a women based on her job or formal education.  Average-looking women have given themselves higher physical attraction scores, base on their jobs and college degrees. 

The mainstream media, major colleges and universities, and the Feminist Movement are largely responsible for the institutional destruction of male American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS) public image.  The Black man’s public image is carefully degraded at every level of American public life.  The factor out of those institution’s control in the way Black men conduct themselves in public.  No one is perfect, and the flaws that Black men have are well-known in American society.  The issue has been the way American society is hypocritical when it comes to women and Black women specifically.  Female American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS) are called strong and independent, yet have been protected against factual critiques for the last 50 years.  U.S. domestic policies have done major injustices to Black women for the past 50 years.  When a group of women are having out-of-wedlock children at a rate of nearly 80 percent, something is wrong.  Yet, U.S. society has never made a major push toward mental health and intervention to stop single women with multiple children for different men who were never their husbands.

Because of The Kevin Samuels Effect, all eyes are on the American Black Man.  His image is under intense scrutiny, because the Black woman’s image in under seize.  Her destruction is institutional, while the Black man’s image is being uplifted via independent media.  The Gender War is a victory that Black men can claim because of the disregard U.S. society has shown for the traditional Black family unit over the last 50 years.  At the last hour, the Kevin Samuels Effect exposed the flaws that modern Black women are systematically prone to make.

 Many academic scholars who founded Black Male Studies and evolved the subject matter by providing  accurate data have acknowledged that the Gender War between Black men and Black Women is over. It is not over because of Black women accept the loss.  People behind Black feminists and the Gender War (the mainstream Feminist Movement) are still pushing for the continued divide between Black men and Black women in America.  Feminism is now used around the world as a way to use women to destabilize patriarchal societies.  In America, the female slave was used to control Black men, as described by scholars like W.E.B. Dubois and his book, The Philadelphia Negro (1899) and E. Franklin Frazier’s The Negro Family in the United States (1939).  Hollywood plays a role is promoting the division between Black men and Black women that is a major aspect of U.S. society.  Mainstream public figures are reluctant to admit that Black women have held a significant amount of power in their communities for more than a century.  Corporations apply psychological coercion in a way that rivals the methods used on Slave Plantations.  The stronghold that U.S. society depends on is the corporate relationship between Black women and Caucasian Patriarchy.  Regardless of what mainstream Feminist Movement leaders say, Caucasian women derive their power from U.S. patriarchal society.

The alternative is for modern women to get a college degree and always have a back up plan in case marriage does not work out favorably. The push to re-release the film The Color Purple in 2023, is just another way to perpetuate the hateful mindset that modern Black women are encouraged to have toward Black men. The films Slaves (1969), Mandingo (1975), Drum (1976), and the now-cancelled TV show Scandal (2012-2018) all have bedwench and slave buck imagery that are continuously reinforced within U.S. society. The New York Times best-selling could have been made into a film, because re-making The Color Purple. Wench is a fiction novel that was inspired by the story of the Ohio resort (Tawawa House) where Caucasian slavemasters took their Negro slave mistresses on vacation each Summer. The story could be uncomfortable to emphasize, because of the way U.S. society has a longstanding history of institutional exploitation. For example, the modern Black women was encouraged by the Feminist Movement to function as a corporate wench for her job’s bosses (often Caucasian Males), instead of prioritizing being a wife and helpmate to her husband.  Only 1 in 4 Black women will ever be married in their lifetime, and the blame has always been squarely placed on Black men in America. By the 1980s, the myth was that Black men did not meet women’s criteria for marriage. The corporate relationship between Caucasians and the exploitation of Black women has been ignored for decades.  When we say “exploitation,” Black women did not see it that way. They thought it was beneficial to prioritize college degrees and jobs over husbands, just like how slave mistresses were encouraged to do.  Male American Descendants of Slavery have been completely ignored for the last 50 years, unless they were the subject of ways to levy harsher prison sentences on people convicted of crimes. 

In summary, the Gender War is over, based on the way high numbers of modern women think. The Kevin Samuels Effect  demonstrated on video the high numbers of Black women who are completely unrealistic about their SMV (Sexual Marketplace Value) on the open dating marketplace.  Modern women, feminists, and all other detractors were not able to factually refute the data that was used to prove why and how Black women were manipulated into neglecting the traditional Black family unit. One in four Black women marry.  Nearly 80 percent of Black children are born out-of-wedlock.  Modern women do not respect Black men or domestic roles, yet are open to marriages that will give them utility and luxury lifestyles where they will not have to do anything in exchange.  That is how far modern women have gotten away from reality.  The whole world sees the futility in thinking that way, and the data shows that productive Black men are opting out of being exploited for their resources by self-serving modern women.  Because all of this information is clearly seen, Black women are looking at reality and being forced to re-evaluate their approach to life.

Many academic scholars who founded Black Male Studies and evolved the subject matter by providing  accurate data have acknowledged that the Gender War between Black men and Black Women is over. It is not over because of Black women accept he results.  People behind Black women’s support of the Gender War (the Feminist Movement) are still pushing for the continuance of the destructive divide between Black men and Black women in America.  Feminism is now covertly promoted around the world as a way to use women to destabilize societies around the world.  In America, the female Slave was used against Black men, as described by scholars like E. Franklin Frazier and W.E.B. Dubois.  Hollywood plays a role is promoting the division that is a part of U.S. history.  Mainstream scholars overlook the fact that Black women have preferred to hold power in their communities for more than a century.  Corporations apply psychological coercion in a way that rivals the methods used on Slave Plantations.

The films Slaves (1969), Mandingo (1975), Drum (1976), and the now-cancelled TV show Scandal (2012-2018) all have bedwench and slave buck imagery that is reinforced by U.S. society. The novel Wench is the story of the Ohio resort where Caucasian slavemasters took their Negro bedwenches on vacation. The modern Black women was encouraged by the Feminist Movement to function as a corporate wench to her job’s bosses (often Caucasian Males), instead of learning to be a helpmate to a husband.  The Kevin Samuels Effect exposed the modern Black women’s preference to put her faith in a job instead of an intelligent Black men.  Because of where we are today, there should be no joy in demeaning modern Black women for the choices they make.  The next generation of Black women must be smart enough to choose an intelligent Black man to help form a tradition family.  The notion of the High Value Male has validity, but we must also be mindful of the fact that many “High Value Men” have been reluctant to expose the way U.S. society (i.e. U.S. public policy, the Feminist Movement, etc) were reluctant to enact public policies and legislation that would have brought balance to the Black community.  Male American Descendants of Slavery are completely ignored, when it comes to public policy.  The Kevin Samuels Effect pointed to what modern Black women do to themselves when they devalue Black men. 

Modern Black women have been taught to choose jobs over being wives in traditional Black families.  At the last hour, modern Black women often seek marriage from 30-35 years old when it is too late.  There is no celebration in knowing that modern Black women have not been taught to be “fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, and submissive,” which Kevin Samuels made clear before his untimely demise.  Although he passed on, his words still resonate in modern society.  The Gender War is over, based on the fact that intelligent men realize that they should refrain from disrespecting Black women for losing. There is no glory in celebrating the modern Black woman’s miscalculation of when she was supposed to marry and help her husband a raise traditional family.

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The Way of the World: The Gender War

August 4, 2022

Updated August 8, 2022

Let’s make something clear about The Kevin Samuels Effect (which is the premise of the book The Kevin Samuels Effect).  The purpose of talking about relationships between “Black” men and “Black” women is not to embarrass or antagonize anyone, especially women and that was never the intention of Kevin Samuels. The truth cuts like a knife sometimes and that is why the traditional Black family unit and the Black community have suffered irreparable harm. Intense scrutiny and accountability is something America protects “Black” women from. History has failed to report how we got where we are in the “Black Community.  Let’s use the American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS) community as an example, because whatever happens there makes its way everywhere else.  The purpose of the discussions Kevin Samuels provided was to solve problems that we all have and help make a better way of life. The message that Kevin Samuels delivered shall exist forever through his digitized audio and video recordings archive. The Kevin Samuels Effect makes it clear that women have been lied to by many sectors of American society.  Anyone who publicly gloats and laughs at the position that modern Black women find themselves in is laughing at us all, because it takes men and women to develop thriving traditional families and communities.

Black men’s actions will determine where the Black community goes from here.  The issues between men and women will determine where U.S. society goes from here.

The book The Kevin Samuels Effect by Muzahraf Fahim (Slight Sleep Media) makes it clear that U.S. government agencies at every level watched the destruction of the “Black” community. After a women has five children out-of-wedlock, no psychological counseling or therapy is required, to make sure she is stable?  And the welfare system does not adapt to what she really needs?  The physical demise of Kevin Samuels was celebrated, but that response was misguided. Slight Sleep Media knew that the truth being spoken was The Kevin Samuels Effect, and that fact could never die.  Again, there is no need to gloat and celebrate a victory.  Yes, women have lost the gender war, but what does that mean if nothing changes?  The truth has been spoken, because Kevin Samuels explained that women between the approximate ages of 27-35 were in the “Danger Zone.” He went on to define women from the approximate ages of 36-60 in “No Man’s Land.” The “Danger Zone” is where so many modern “Black” women feel like they have acquired their formal education, jobs, and have had fun for a number of years; then they are ready to find husbands. Other races of women are able to go to college, work, and have husbands all at the same time. Women who reach the age of 30 without being married face problems on the Open Dating Market, especially when they have unrealistic expectations about who they should accept marriage from. Marriage is difficult enough, based on the bias of the Family Court System. 

The Kevin Samuels Effect explained the fact that average women (4s, 5s, and 6s on a scale of 1-10) think they deserve High Value Men and High Earning Men whom they do not physically qualify for. Today’s modern women resent domesticity, and only see men as utilities who can provide luxury lifestyles.  Modern Black women’s lives tell the whole story. Women were led to believe that having a child out-of-wedlock does not decrease their chances for marriage. Black women were encouraged to favor formal education (i.e. college degrees, graduate school, and jobs over husbands). If husbands were “accepted,” his purpose was to provide financially, without having to  respect him. If modern Black women respected their men, why do Black women think they are do everything else under the sun before prioritizing marriage? 

The Gender War Between Black Women and Black Men

The Black man was never personally at war with the Black women. The modern Feminist Movement encouraged Black women to focus on themselves and not on having husbands and the traditional family unit.  Kevin Samuels and many others have declared that the Gender War is over.  It is not over and Hollywood is still releasing negative propaganda films like The Color Purple II, Wakanda Forever, and The Woman King to instigate tension between Black men and women. The proof of the Gender War’s effects is the number of single women who do not have tradition families; the modern Black women was never taught to prioritize having a husband, and that is why statistically so many Black women do not have husbands and traditional families (Black women are either single, or mostly have single mother-led households with children from unwed unions). All we see is signs of the casualties of war.  Human casualties are one way to measure war results. Out of the women who were encouraged to attend college, or pursue lucrative jobs, low numbers of those women are married. They could be married, but have priced themselves out of the market by having a price that too high for the value they represent. For example, average women have above-average requirements in men. Society never talked this way to Black women and anyone who speaks the truth is censored. Speaking the truth changed with The Kevin Samuels Effect.  Opposition was dismantled because data, accurate statistics, and credible research were used to expose public policy and modern Black women’s decisions. T negative propaganda being pushed by the modern Feminist Movement also did irreparable harm to the traditional Black family. We see large numbers of modern women who have been taught to resent traditional families and seek marriage partnerships with men.  Being a man’s helpmate is resentful to modern women.  Kevin Samuels was genius is pointing out to women that men do not measure women based on their formal education or their jobs. The first thing most men evaluate is a woman’s physical appearance, physical fitness, and level of femininity. Modern women have been taught to be conditionally feminine and uncooperative.  These are a few reasons why men won the Gender War (especially Black men). We see the state of the Black community and blame had been placed on Black men for the last 50 years.  We can say the Gender War is over, because the lies and excuses that U.S. society and modern Black women use to discredit Black men have been exposed. Myths and lies were used to discredit Black men in America (ADOS).  Modern women were told to put all of their energy into formal education, jobs, and give whatever effort was left to pursuing marriage.  The Gender War’s ending also makes it clear that many women will die alone.  Others will have to be realistic in accessing their Sexual Market Value and find a man accordingly.  Modern women made the mistake of thinking because they make a certain amount of money, the men these women want would be available. 

Modern Black women were to taught that it was bad to depend on a man, yet as soon as any extraordinary circumstance disrupts and breaks down civilization’s comfort zones, these same women talk about how Black men do not protect them.  Something is changing on a small scale though, following the Gender War.  At least traditional Black families are being talked about, based on the clear failure it represents.  In many cases, the wrong people are talking about the Gender War. Most of the mainstream relationship gurus were busy telling women what women wanted to hear.  Strict accountability was never addressed, although it was touched on.  In contrast, Kevin Samuels brought the hard truth to modern women on a regular basis.  The women who make critical errors in their decisions (i.e. out-of-wedlock children, delaying marriage to the point where it becomes more and more improbable) always needed to hear the truth.  If women were being shamed for having out-of-wedlock children and that no man wants to raise another man’s child, women would be more careful with  “when” and who they allow to impregnate them.  They would get married first.

The Kevin Samuels Effect also emphasizes the psychological toll that the modern world has had on women.  The Feminist Movement placed unnatural expectations on women, the deception they subject themselves to, because they are living against their logical roles, which has caused a lot of psychological damage in the Black community.  The Kevin Samuels Effect has helped make it acceptable for women to acknowledge that they may need to seek counseling and clinical therapy, in order to reverse some of the mental trauma that they have experienced in their lives.  Black men have always been critiqued, but women were not held accountable equally, which hurts women in the end.  High numbers of Black women would have never reached being 30 years old without being married if U.S. society had been honest with them.

The “Black” man’s public image was completely destroyed by the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) and the Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) specifically during the 1960s and 1970s.  The more you look into this topic, the more information you will find.  You won’t here PBS talk about it though.  The mainstream media did not do its job in discussing the way the Feminist Movement was co-opted by a group of Caucasian women who “befriended” Black women and pushed them to be independent from “Black” men. Dividing the Black community was not going to do anything to uphold and preserve the quality of life for Black men, women, and children. There is no blame to be had though. The only way Black women can fix their situation is to humble themselves and properly acknowledge intelligent “Black” men. Being taught to hate someone for more than 50 years has become permanent for many Black women. Some women will never recover and will always have hatred in their hearts for Black men, regardless of what Black women say out of their mouths. Intelligent “Black” men know not to hate Black women. They are our mothers, sisters, daughters, and wives.  Men must lead and be respectful in how they conduct themselves in this sensitive time in history.  The truth about what the Feminist Movement represents is clear to anyone who wants to know. There is not going to be an apology tour from Black women anytime soon, but they know the truth now.  Power and money is on the line, and modern women are not going to easily relinquish what they have acquired (and still want to acquire), which is why so many women will die alone.  They won’t have children or families, because they placed college degrees and jobs over husbands and families.  This is the clear message that represents The Kevin Samuels Effect.

Statement Made

On August 5, 2022 one of Kevin Samuels’ associates made a statement about the Gender War being over and women needing to sit down and negotiate a deal with “Black” men.  He acknowledge that women will say a lot of things, but have not done enough to prove their sincerity.  Most “Black” women will not be able to reverse the indoctrination they received from the infiltrators of the 1960s Feminist Movement.  The Feminist Movement is political in nature and commands a significant amount of power.  The modern Black women can not shake the effects of the feminist ideology that told Black women to focus on jobs, college degrees, and then finding husbands–those husbands are often expected to agree to be partners, instead of being men who capably lead based on wisdom and intellect. The average woman will have to work her whole life (approximately 74 percent of all women work at least part-time).  Wearing African clothing and learning Swahili isn’t necessary like American Descents of Slavery thought to do in the 1960s, but cultural awareness is important.  Since Kevin Samuels said something that mainstream U.S. society would not allow “Black” men to say without major opposition, now we know that hair weave extensions are not preferred.  Te women never cared what “Black” men wanted and the pattern continues.  How many American Descendants of Slavery are more that carbon copies of “White” people, except for their skin tone?  Most people around the world worship the world that the European society have given them.  Not only do people come for America, but they see White culture as superior.  Many times, it is.  We don’t see “Black” men with major manufacturing industries, even when they have the resources.  When “Black” women get rid of their weaves, corporate loyalty, and change their bad attitudes toward intelligent “Black” men, we will see signs of a post-Gender War world.  No formal negotiation has to take place immediately, but actions that show respect to Black men is immediately necessary. 

The unfortunately sudden demise of Kevin Samuels was a major event in the Gender War. Women and men celebrated Samuel’s demise, while others expressed regret for criticizing him publicly like they did.  The meteoric rise of the “manosphere” brought unexpected growing pains with it.  Kevin Samuels did not realize that he was at the helm of a global phenomenon, which may have contributed to his demise.  Within one year, it was clear that supportive data, statistics, and accurate research was the key to dismantling the negative propaganda that the mainstream media pushes, along with the key players who influence U.S. policy.  Kevin Samuels had managed to grow beyond his imagination, which is why he failed to scale the movement to the level it was supposed to be at. For example, Samuels thought it he could control and regulate the direction that The Kevin Samuels Effect took. Mr. Samuels could not separate The Kevin Samuels Effect from Kevin Samuels himself.  This was bigger than becoming rich and famous.  The Kevin Samuels Effect became an unstoppable force that connected directly to the what the Civil Rights Movement and the Black Power Movement should have been.  The Kevin Samuels Effect happened so soon that there was not enough time for it to co-opted by corporate America.  Samuels was lining up deals behind the scenes at the time of his death, but he was functioning on an individual scale.  He was at the point were he could have gotten anything he needed to expand his movement, without being obligated to anyone.  He didn’t know how to do it.  What does this have to do with the Gender War.  The Gender War’s results remain the same, regardless of Kevin Samuels’ death.  In fact, the movement has grown, because the center of The Kevin Samuels Effect was based on the truth, data, accurate research, and the courage to stand up as a man in America.  This is a time when corporations, government policymakers, and the mainstream media were dismantling masculinity.  As soon as the truth was spoken about misandry (the hatred of men), that was the moment when The Kevin Samuels Effect demonstrated its ability to change American society.  Even when they did not say it out loud, men knew that they were obligated to speak the truth about the way the Feminist Movement was eternally committed to destroying men.  No other group could speak to this like male American Descendants of Slavery.

The Kevin Samuels Effect was the metaphorical gunshot that was heard around the world.  U.S. policies were enacted that propped “Black” women above men, in order to destabilize the Black community.  Academics were not so ignorant that they did not see the inner-city’s decay and destruction over the past 50 years.  A major methodology was the way Kevin Samuels pointed out the modern Black women’s preference to be masculine and domineering over their men.  Especially college-educated modern Black women.  A majority of males are able to be controlled and dominated by men.  The Kevin Samuels Effect shunned that mindset and pointed out the exact problems with Black men and women’s issues.  Black men do not like hair weave extensions,  women’s dogs a/k/a Dog Husbands, and the lack of respect that Black women generally show intelligent Black men.  The modern Black women’s mistake of choosing the corporate job and college degree over Black men is the modern Black woman’s greatest failure.  Her unwillingness to be cooperative and precise in her life plan is her greatest error.  The number of modern Black women who have reached 30 years old and do not know how to be a wife has been exposed by the Kevin Samuels Effect.  These are some of the factors that create a perpetual state of victory for men in the Gender War. Women lost the Gender War, because they miscalculated their lives.  Most of them will get old and die alone, unfortunately.

Black men (American Descents of Slavery) have been on their own in America for a long time, which is why they are not waiting on modern Black women to do anything. In fact, modern Black women are changing out of necessity. American Policy is written to keep the traditional Black family fragmented, and Department of Labor Secretary Patrick Moynihan (The Moynihan Report) made that clear over 50 years ago. We already know that Black men have the tools to survive and thrive, because we see it. It is popular propaganda to point at Black men in prison or gay, but that is not the reality.  The Kevin Samuels Effect made it clear that Black men has to admit that the modern Black woman’s actions are counterproductive to the traditional Black family unit and productive Black communities for the last 50 years.  The modern woman’s jobs, college degrees, and improved way of life is not a win at all and everyone knows it, because none of those achievements can replace the purposeful need for an intelligent, wise Black man.  Kevin Samuels did serve as a pseudo-martyr because his message remains.  His flaws were buried when he passed away a few months ago.  The message that he taught is stronger than ever, because more people know about it.  Yes, he compiled his information from a number of people.  The truth is, no one else was able to bring a method of delivery like he did.  The book, The Kevin Samuels Effect is full of statistics and cited sources.  That is not the king of reading that sells, which is why this blog exists.  We break down what is going on in plain English here.  The same is in the book, but this helps add clarity.

The modern “Black” woman has been thoroughly Brainwashed over the last 60 years by the leadership behind the Feminist Movement.  As was said before, the Feminist Movement was also infiltrated by a number of women with ties to agencies like the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) and the Central Intelligence Agency (CIA).  How will the average Black women be able to process this information and know what it means.  The mission of paying modern “Black” women to abandon their men was successful, because modern women’s priorities are education, jobs, and then husbands.  The modern “Black” woman lives in the shadow of White cultural and beauty standards. 

The difference in that is The Kevin Samuels Effect. Many Black women are waking up and rejecting the plan that was set out by the infiltrators of the Feminist Movement.  People get something wrong. Women’s rights are not wrong, and women in America have more rights that any other country in the world.  A sense of entitlement has caused women to be ungrateful and unappreciative and Black men are the symbolic representatives of not respecting men.  America knows that if they broke unity between “Black men and women,” their communities would fall. And that is what happened during the last 50 years.  In many ways, we are at the point of no return.  The good news is that we know the truth and Kevin Samuels planted a seed that will continue to grow in the minds of men and women all over the world.  Yes, that is The Kevin Samuels Effect.

Kevin Samuels broadcast a show episode called Why Does Image Matter So Much? on May 24, 2021.  Something important was said when Kevin Samuels stated that, “We (Black men) don’t control our own media image. Black man media has yet to exist for Black men, for Black men…we don’t control our own media image…there’s so many people who could be shouted out; how many times we got to shout everyone out before we sit back and say, you know what? Does it matter or does it matter that we get the message out? Or do we care about who gets credit for it?…Why is that so important? Because we have a scarcity mentality…Because Black male media has yet to exist for Black men by Black men…Understand that “image is power” and everybody else seems to understand it’s power…When are Black men going to decide to start going in their  pockets and funding it for ourselves. Why would anybody else want to build it for you, if they benefit off of you being where you are? The chances are there now, if you (Black men) can just stay out of each other’s way.”  Beginning in 2020, that was the first time when a “Black” was received on a wide scale for speaking the truth about the way “Black” men are portrayed in America. 

Because of the way Kevin Samuels changed the national conversation about Black men’s image and the way Black women have been instructed to follow a derivative of the modern Feminist Movement. Black men realize that they are on their own. They can be with Black women, but must be aware of the fact that the modern Black woman follows the ideology that she feels is more productive.  We see that the agenda that the modern Black women adopted from the Caucasian-led Feminist Movement is a losing strategy.  The mainstream media encourages Black women to mistrust Black men, yet when a crisis occurs, Black men are expected to come to Black women’s aid.  The Kevin Samuels Effect pointed out all of these flaws in the Black community and something is being done about it.  Black women have not been able to successfully build a “career,” attain a college education, and exist within a traditional family unit with a Black man.  Why?  The model was sabotaged from the very beginning. The main women who co-opted the Feminist Movement had questionable backgrounds.  The definitely had FBI and CIA affiliations and the mainstream media has never completely explored these facts. People know this information, but they do not know what extent it is true.  The statistical data shows that by misleading “Black” women, the “Black community” was neutralized without needing to use the violent tactics that were used against the Civil Rights Movement and the Black Power Movement.  Divide and conquer was the technique used, because ‘Black” women were encouraged to function independently from the traditional Black family unit and their communities.  With a college degree, modern Black women were able to get jobs, pets, and live ‘their best lives.’ 

The Kevin Samuels Effect is still triggering responses by those who said very little about the state of the “Black” community before December, 2020.  It isn’t just ‘the community,’ but the way American mainstream society decided to unnaturally prop up “Black” women as leaders of the “Black” community, knowing that placing women in unnatural roles would destroy the community. We all know that men are needed in communities, but  “Black” women were sold the idea of being proud to be “strong and independent.”  The aftermath is the chaos that we have seen touch other nationalities in America.  Propping up “women” is advantageous for leaders, because insurrections led by women never successful, except in comic book-inspired movies.  The “Black” community has been destroyed over the past 50 years, and there is ample data that explains what happened.  Basically, unwed childbirths are the largest indicator of a child’s success or failure in society.  If that is true, why are 80 percent of all “Black” children being born to single-parent households?  Prior to 1965, “Black” people in America had the highest marriage rate.  What happened to completely change that fact? 

In summary, the Gender War is over, based on the way high numbers of modern women think. The Kevin Samuels Effect  demonstrated on video the high numbers of Black women who are completely unrealistic about their SMV (Sexual Marketplace Value) on the open dating marketplace.  Modern women, feminists, and all other detractors were not able to factually refute the data that was used to prove why and how Black women were manipulated into neglecting the traditional Black family unit. One in four Black women marry.  Nearly 80 percent of Black children are born out-of-wedlock.  Modern women do not respect Black men or domestic roles, yet are open to marriages that will give them utility and luxury lifestyles where they will not have to do anything in exchange.  That is how far modern women have gotten away from reality.  The whole world sees the futility in thinking that way, and the data shows that productive Black men are opting out of being exploited for their resources by self-serving modern women.  Because all of this information is clearly seen, Black women are looking at reality and being forced to re-evaluate their approach to life.

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“Black” Men Addressing “Black” Women on a Nation Level Was Monumental

July 30, 2022

America and the mainstream media were caught completely off-guard by the facts, data, and accurate statistics that exposed the way modern women in America have been allowed to remain unaccountable for the last 50 years.  They were so protected, that any criticism pointed in their direction was quickly eliminated by the mainstream media.  Any “Black” man who spoke the truth was still dealt with accordingly. 

If a plan would have been in place for “male American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS) to address “Black” women in America, something would have gone wrong.  From experience, we know that infiltrators and provocateurs are regularly used by U.S. law enforcement agencies to keep an eye on “Black” people’s activities.  This can be traced all the way back to when a selected Negro was placed in Negro churches and instructed to provide the Negro parishioners with Biblical verses that were in accord with being meek and accepting their plight as enslaved people. The same thing would have happened, had there been enough of a warning that Kevin Samuels was going to disrupt the way America views “Black” men and “Black” women.  The COVID-19 pandemic played a big part in the way women called into Kevin Samuels’ social media platforms and showed a level of delusion that would have not be believed, if it was not being seen live-on-air. On a national scale, Kevin Samuels’ digital broadcasts displayed “Black” women with a sense of entitlement that has never been seen in the modern world.  In essence, women who ranked “average” on a scale of 1 to 10 demonstrated being delusional enough to rank their physical attractiveness  much higher than it really was. The unwillingness to cooperate and modern “Black” women’s complete disregard for “Black” men was evident and the whole world witnessed it.

The conditions that created “The Kevin Samuels Effect” have not gone away.  Those conditions were exposed under an extraordinary set of circumstances.  People were shut inside their homes, but it was more than that.  Modern women were exposed for not being able to survive if civilization’s conditions caused people to regress back to “survival mode.”  Samuels had been saying this all through his broadcasts and women were seen for who they really are.  Women should be treated fairly, but they are not able to normally perform equally in situations that involve physical strength.  The double-standard exists in the fact that women want to be respected for their independence, while retaining the privileges that women and children receive in modern society.

 U.S. society and mainstream media do not hold modern women accountable for their actions because modern women are used to disrupt society on a regular basis. For example, the last time “Black” men stood up and decided to lead their communities, J. Edgar Hoover’s FBI created a plan called the COINTELPRO Program to neutralize “Black” male leadership.  Caucasian feminist infiltrators began to offer a select number of “Black” women positions of power to teach or demonstrate feminism to “Black” women.  Look up the history of “Black” feminists in the 1960s thru the 1980s  like Shirley Chisolm,  Toni Morrison, Michele Wallace, Kimberle’ Crenshaw, Barbara Smith, et cetera, and current state of “Black” women will be clear.  “Black” feminists are proxy tools in the fight against “Black” men’s progress in American society.  Not on a conspiracy level, but in the way the mainstream media is allowed to project negative “Black” male imagery, so it affects public policy the way “Black” men are accepted in America.  Slight Sleep Media knew to expand and promote the term “The Kevin Samuel Effect” so the main role of his work would not be lost in the confusion of his pursuit of fortune and fame.  The Kevin Samuels Effect made it where Men could openly talk about the problems that they see and experience within the “Black” community.  The “Black Matriarchy” could be discussed and the way women like Oprah Winfrey are propped up as women who soil “Black” men’s images.  If Caucasians said what “Black” women are allowed to say and do, it would be called racism, so token “Black” women are put in positions to do the job of destroying “Black” male imagery.

Billion Dollar Policy Change for “Black” Men in America

The Black Lives Matter (BLM) movement was built on the backs of murdered “Black” men in America, yet “Black” men did not benefit from the spotlight being placed on the plight of male American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS) in America. Instead others benefited from the lives and deaths of “Black” men in America.  Out of nowhere, “The Kevin Samuels Effect” exposed the real problem with the way “Black” women are taught to go against common sense in America. It is common sense to build traditional families and communities.  That is not the case for modern “Black” women who have been taught to seek college degrees and jobs to ensure ever needing a man in their lives.  The modern “Black” woman was ignorant enough to allow herself to be manipulated into going against the “Black” man in America.  A select number of “Black” women knowingly took the reigns of oppression in helping sabotage the “Black” community by keeping traditional “Black” families from forming, or at least remaining divided. 

Kevin Samuels did not see the magnitude of his work and he said on many occasions that he wanted to be financially successful.  That was going to happen, but he had embarked on the monumental social justice cause that was well beyond his individual perspective.  Mr. Samuels wanted to help men and women start meeting and marrying, which was only a small portion of expose’ his interviews became. Kevin Samuels showed the whole world the delusion that America encourages modern “Black” women to embrace.  What America financially supports for “Black” women is knowingly genocidal. The truth is that he exposed something bigger and more nefarious, so simply matching couples like what happens are a Sigma Pi Phi-sponsored after work mixer was completely missing the point.  Kevin Samuels had exposed the harm that the modern Feminist Movement, in conjunction with U.S. Policy,  had unleashed on women, “Black” women, “Black” men, and the traditional family unit.  Women are being told that they had time to get post-baccalaureate degrees, have fun on an individual level by traveling and dining in the post-college years, and then find top-tier husbands at thirty years old. The “Kevin Samuels Effect” exposed the fact that the math is not adding up in the way that “Black” women are told to plan their lives.  No major “Black” leaders had said anything with the platforms that they had available to them, because the ‘Black” community’s social collapse seemed like it was a part of a plan.  

We all say the way uncooperative, average looking women were allowed to believe that they are highly attractive, thanks to the deception that can be purchased in the form of wigs, hair weave extensions, eyelashes, makeup, and basic lies.  Women deserve better, and it took “Black” men to keep speaking out about what was happening to the “Black” community and the traditional “Black” family unit.  Bad attitudes have never been acceptable, but everything was acceptable in the “Black” community, because for the last 50 years, dysfunction has been a part of the way “Black” communities operate.

Modern Women and Mental Health

Slate Magazine published an article back on November 17, 2011 titled, 1 in 4 Women Cannot Possibly Need Mental Health Drugs by KJ Dell’Antonia. A lot of women are being over-medicated. For the most part, modern women are being misled by society, which is causing psychological problems.  Kevin Samuels allowed the world to see the high number of women who either needed mental counseling/ therapy or where already seeing someone about their mental issues.  What makes the situation so compelling is the way that many of these women are living great lives, according to modern American society.  American women the ability to pursue college educations, and full participation in the labor force.  Yes, women are biased in the jobs they want, and never want to do the dirty jobs like sanitation workers, oil rig specialists,  coal-miners, etc.  When women are hired in these fields, they can not perform equally to men, but insist on being paid equally.  The point is, women were seen hundreds of times on camera asking for unrealistic demands that were borderline delusional or mildly mentally-ill.  Males have mental issues, but why are women needing therapy at the rates they are?  Some say they are being over-medicated, which is possible.  Based on the interviews that we see, modern American women are encouraged to be entitled and highly delusional. 

The result of modern “Black” women’s delusion stems from the mis-education they  continue to receive via modern Feminist Movement theory.  Fish are not meant to ride bicycles, just like women are not meant to perform all roles that human males perform. Do not say that to Hollywood, because they are saying something to the contrary. For example, the modern Feminist Movement in conjunction with Hollywood have two movies that are nothing more than propaganda tools that mimic and mock “Black” men:  The Woman King (release date September 16, 2022) and Black Panther: Wakanda Forever (release date November 11, 2022). We see the effects of women being ignorant enough to prioritize post-secondary school education and jobs, over functional “Black” communities, “Black” husbands, and traditional family households.  We can look everywhere and see high rates of women beyond 35 who are single and acting like they are in their early-to-mid-twenties.  Modern women are consistently going into debt from student loans and thinking college degrees can take the place of a traditional family unit.  The traditional “Black” family unit is officially broken and is a proven fact: Eighty (80) percent of all “Black” babies are born to single mothers.  And only 26 percent of “Black” women will marry at least once in their lifetime.  Massive amounts of money are being granted to “Black” women, as though money will fix the problem. It must be remembered that “Black” men are not included in the equation, except when “Black” men are in emasculated roles.  The U.S. has unofficially made “Black” women the head of the “Black” community.  How?  Single women are not sanctioned for having children out of wedlock, although all children born to single households have the odds stacked against them.  The current way public policies are directed at “Black” communities and “Black” women is a societal failure, and the results of the last 50 years prove this point. 

Why did so many women volunteer to appear on the Kevin Samuels Show?  For the same women so many single women can be found on dating sites.  The myth was that it was the men who had the problem.   The myth was that all of the good men were either in jail or gay.  That myth was allowed to permeate the mainstream airwaves for the last 50 years.  Everyone knew that wasn’t true, but the women who appeared on the Kevin Samuels Show displayed a high level of confusion and delusion that college degrees and state-sponsored support tried to hide.  When Kevin Samuels said 61 percent of “Black” men were in the middle class, many different media platforms said he was using inaccurate data.  They said the number was actually something like 57 percent.  The point is, the idea was correct in dispelling the myth of their not being any adequate “Black” men available.  The modern Feminist Movement traumatized “Black” women by instigating situations that would put “Black” women at a disadvantage.  The modern “Black” woman fell for the tricks and traps that Caucasian feminists gave to Negro feminists and have been dealing with the consequences of those delusional decisions for decades. 

Cosmetic Surgery and the “Black” Magic it Represents

U.S. society and the cosmetics industry told women that they were more attractive than they really were.  Cosmetic surgery offers one main problem.  Women get cosmetic surgery, which does not change the genes that they were will on to their children.  The women’s big nose or crooked teeth will be seen in the children she bears.  Men have the right to know what women really look like without cosmetic surgery. 

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Modern Women Have Been Setting Their Clocks Wrong For The Past 50 Years

July 23, 2022

Modern women were told to place emphasis on their college educations, jobs, and then starting a family.  The math is completely wrong, because any women looking to get married and start a family after the age of 30 years old is late.  Black women have a 26% chance of being married in their lifetime.  The modern Feminist Movement told women that men were not important, and that negative sentiment toward “Black” men was like genocidal.  The fact that government policy and the mainstream media did little to accommodate “Black” family life says it all.  Modern women continue to fall into the same trap year after year.  Mothers teach their daughters how to get a degree and serve a boss, but resent serving their husband. They work harder at being good employees than being good wives.    The “Kevin Samuels  Effect” changed the way we look at the world.  Everything Kevin Samuels said about relationships and “Black” women was already known. 

Kevin Samuels called the years between 27-35 ‘the danger zone’ for women. This is a time when women are supposed to apply laser-like focus on getting married.  The modern Feminist Movement functions counter to that idea.  When women talk about being cooperative, they are talking from a 50/ 50 partnership perspective.  A man is supposed to be selected, based on his ability to lead and guide.  The idea of a High Value Man is important, but most women will never marry a High Earning Man.  That is the main point that has been exposed with modern women.  An average, hardworking man is an asset and honor to be with, but the vision of the “Black” race got steered off-course somewhere along the way.

Modern “Black” women have been taught to resent “Black” men’s authority.  Gender does not determine a man’s ability to lead.  The issue is the resentment that has been placed on leadership in the household, yet it was accepted in the classroom or job setting.  Modern were exposed by “The Kevin Samuels Effect.”  When we (Slight Sleep Media) published the book, we knew something significant was happening.  That is the reason why we published a book on the subject (Kevin Samuels) before anyone else did.  We saw history in the making.

“Black” women have been taught to resent “Black” men, no matter how factual their information happens to be.  Women are helpmates to intelligent men, but the modern Feminist Movement has changed the “Black” man’s important in his own community. This could have never happened, if “Black” women insisted on remaining a strong traditional family unit with their men.  The modern “Black” woman is going extinct, in terms of having a productive traditional family.  “The Color Purplelization” of the “Black male image” in America did irreversible damage to men and traditional families. The Kevin Samuels Effect provided the keys to stopping the damage that was being done to the “Black” community.  Unfortunately, everyone can not be saved.  Some women who waited to find husbands will never have children and traditional families.  High numbers of people have witnessed the scheme and are no longer ignorant enough to go along with plan carried out by the modern Feminist Movement.  The Kevin Samuels Effect is a metaphor for accurate facts, data, and statistics.

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Please Do Not Unnecessarily Embarrass Women

July 22, 2022

With the rise of Kevin Samuels’ approach to the “Black” family, a lot of people now interview women using a questionnaire-type  interview style that is similar to what Kevin Samuels used before his passing in May, 2022.  We know the basic premises of “The Kevin Samuels Effect.”  The world now knows that most men do not want to marry women who have children by other men. They do not want to marry women past 30 years old, if they intend on having children.  Successful men do not want overweight women for wives.  For “wives,” is the operative phrase, because women have been allowed to think “dating,” means something.  Only marriages count, in determining most women’s Sexual Market Value (SMV).  The men who are supposed to be the public figure “leaders” of the “Black” community have also been complicit in allowing “Black” women to be delusional for the past 30 years.  They whole play was in effect the past 50 years, and very little was said to correct the errors of the traditional family unit and the “Black” community.

Somewhere after the modern Feminist Movement and the movie Claudine, liberal society told “Black” women that there was nothing wrong with having children out-of-wedlock and not emphasizing marriage. Kevin Samuels showed that the math that feminists teach women does not add up realistically.  For the past five decades, modern “Black” women have been taught to place their full attention on the college degrees, jobs, and then a husband who can be a support system for a woman, and not the other way around.  It is the “Black” woman who calls for “partnerships,” more than her being a helpmate to her husband.  Now we know how this happened, and we all know who the culprits of this disastrous kind of thinking were.  Because of the “Kevin Samuels Effect,” we hear a lot more people speaking the truth about women’s unaccountability.  There is no moral victory for those who talk down to women, knowing that they have been given the keys to their own success.  Women can succeed and live better lives by improving their physical fitness, femininity, and pleasantness. 

There is no need to keep showing women on digital platforms who are delusional in thinking they will attract a High Value Man, when these women are usually “older,” have multiple children by multiple men, and are average looking.  It is unfair to exploit these women, and the digital shows online that are imitating Kevin Samuels are missing the point.  They fail to see how women are encouraged to be realistic and change the things about themselves that they can change.

There are a number of digital TV shows that disguise themselves are dating shows.  These show’s hosts act like they are helping women, but they are making a mockery out of “Black” women.  We know that a high number of women are delusional about what type of man they can attract, because most women want a man who earns more money than they earn.  The competition for High Earning Men is relentless.  COVID-19 gave us a glimpse of what obstacles women face when they are left to fend for themselves in extraordinary situations.  The way men have civilized the world, and America in particular, has given women the delusional point of view that is popular among feminists.

The Gift and the Curse

Most Modern “Black” women can carry their physical body weight “well,” meaning that they are still attractive, although they are overweight at a rate of 80 percent.  Who decides what ‘carrying their weight well’ really means? We are taking about what men like.  Somewhere along the way, modern society told women that how they looked is not men’s business. The independent mindset is delusional, because as soon as something goes wrong, most women talk about how they are not protected by their men, which is not true at all.  We see the effects of women thinking they do not have to be accountable to men. 

Being overweight or obese is a controllable variable, so when women are told that they are overweight, they should never react defensively.  Modern women have gotten used to being overweight and not receiving much criticism for being that way.   Between December 2020 and May, 2022, the world got a chance to see the number of women who wanted to marry High Value Men.  These men could have been interchangeable with High Earning Men, because many professional women seek someone one their economic earning level or higher.  There is nothing wrong with women being hypergamous.  Merriam-Webster defines hypergamy as:  “marriage into an equal or higher caste or social group.”  Women can freely seek men who can support wives and families, and this is completely normal.  The competition among women to be married to a select group of men is what Kevin Samuels highlighted in his interviews with women.

Roughly ten (10) percent of men earn at least 120 thousand dollars per year.  The number of men who earn 500 thousand dollars per year is  five (5) percent of all men.  The numbers will be more specific when the details surrounding these men are more specific, but the bottom line is that most women want High Earning Men.  The number of women who have been able to marry is low.  Twenty-percent of women marry at least once in their lifetime.  The reasons behind women’s inability to marry has been addressed. The modern Feminist Movement and the mainstream media has pushed a myth saying how there were not enough top earning men for women.  Most women are not qualified for top-earning men and that fact was addressed and exposed by “The Kevin Samuels Effect.”  In today’s world, people act as though there is something wrong with being “average.”  Men are regularly told that they are too poor, too short, too unattractive, and it is called “reality.”  Women are lied to regularly and are encouraged to be delusional.  The few people who stand up and speak the truth in U.S. society are usually punished and persecuted.    The world has changed in a way that no one expected, because of what has been happening for the last fifty years.   Reality is glaringly staring at us in America, like it is starting to happen in other parts of the world.

In a Bloomberg Businessweek story published March 16, 2018 titled, For Many of Japan’s Elderly Women, Prison Is a Haven by Shiho Fukada, we see the effects of what American shall experience in the near future. Modern women do not realize that their salaries will not be enough to sustain their lives during their retirement years.  Fukada explained how, “Caring for Japanese seniors once fell to families and communities, but that’s changing.  From 1980 to 2015, the number of seniors living alone increased more than sixfold, to almost 6 million. And a 2017 survey by Tokyo’s government found that more than half of seniors caught shoplifting live alone; 40 percent either don’t have family or rarely speak with relatives. These people often say they have no one to turn to when they need help.”  This is a problem that is bubbling beneath the surface in America. 

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 American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS) Gender War in America (1964-present)

On January 23, 2022, a panel discussion titled, “The Gender War is Over and Women Lost,” guest-featured Kevin Samuels (R.I.P.).  Mr. Samuels  clarified what ‘losing the gender war’ really meant for modern women. He explained how women often seem to be saying, “I’m in this situation. Understand my plight, Understand how I got here.” The 1960s Feminist Movement focused on placing America’s attention of the plight of women 100 percent of the time.  Women  are in a situation where they fail to honestly ask themselves,  “What’s in it for the men?”   The modern Feminist Movement taught women to see themselves as perennial victims of a iron-fisted form of patriarchy in America.  Black American men have never had patriarchal power over “Black” women, but that never mattered. Black men wanted the same patriarchal power that all White men supposedly had, so that made them just as guilty as White men, according to feminist theory.   

Kevin Samuels continued, “I think that would be fair for the women to try to understand what the men want, and make it to the men’s benefit.  If not, you’re the only group of women (Black women) standing so far apart from their men. It is not for men to make any more moves toward women. Women have to make moves toward men.  Lastly, I said it last year(that) the gender war is over. After a war is over, there is a winner and a loser. Women lost: twenty-six percent marital in the Black community. Eight out of ten children being born out-of-wedlock. Women, you lost. So you have to sit down at the table first and admit defeat with your mouth. And then admit defeat with your actions, or else what other group of men are you going to deal with?  And if you can’t humble yourselves, to understand that your men are more valuable than just in the bedroom and at the bank, Who’s going to replace us? “

There is still a covert gender war occurring between “Black” women and “Black” men.  The modern “Black” woman follows the lead of Caucasian feminists, because White women are the ones who sit the closest to the sear of power.  If a Caucasian women gets legislation passed that benefits women, “Black” women participate.  The same way the Vietnam War never ended, the gender war between men and women never ended.  North Korea and South Korea are still divided and opposed to each other.  The fighting is not active, but sanctions against Communist North Korea are still in place and enforced by America. 

Modern “Black” women have never stood up and formally denounced their behavior against “Black” men.  The crime was siding with the modern Feminist Movement and giving the National Organization of Women (NOW).  Modern “Black” women covertly sided with the National Women’s Political Caucus, whenever gains were made.  The modern “Black” woman was convinced to fight for and support all rights that opened doors into the labor market.  That was beneficial, but the Feminist Movement and the American Media convinced Black women to prioritize employment over forming traditional families.  The Black community no longer exists because the structure was destroyed.  Modern Black women chose to compete with their men, instead of working together with “Black” men.  The modern “Black” woman’s mantra became “Independence.”   Kevin Samuels emphasized the traditional family by affirming that that, “… is the core of the community: the nuclear family. Marital filings were up with every community in 2019 and 2020, except ours; they were down.”  The meet-ups that Kevin Samuels planned around the country should have been forums where women would acknowledge that “Black” women covertly or casually adopting feminism destroyed the “Black” community.  Modern “Black” women are not ready to accept responsibility for the destruction of the traditional family unit.  Who has the highest abortion rates in America?  Black women do!  Who has the most children out-of-wedlock? “Black” women.  Modern women, will say, “Not me,” while watching the decay of “Black” women’s morals, family structures, and birthrates.  The quickest way for a man to rise in the public sphere is to tell “Black” women that the current state of the community is not their fault.  It does not matter, because there were not be enough government programs that can save the “Black” community.  In fact, we have already witnessed the defeat of the “Black” community.  It is happening in real time.

Modern Black women are students of the Gloria Steinem school of feminism and do not even know what that means.  History has skipped over the significant of what it means too.  The Black Women will never conceded that “Black” women lost the gender war between “Black” men and “Black” women.  The proof is in the complete annihilation of the “Black” community, and every marker used to measure performance (or a lack of) can be traced to the break down of the traditional family unit.

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At First, No One Was Listening

July 15, 2022

Everything that was considered normal is rapidly changing, and we call that phenomenon “The Kevin Samuels Effect” in the book of the same name (The Kevin Samuels Effect). There are a high number of public figures who died shortly after reaching mind-boggling levels of fame.  The world took notice when Kevin Samuels started being critical of women and the dysfunctional behavior that U.S. society regularly encourages.  Why would society encourage dysfunction among women?  In terms of the “Black” community, there can never be progress, as long as unqualified people are encouraged to lead their communities.  Look at who has been encouraged to lead, and look at their lack of success.  Women lead the community in partnership with local, state, and federal government agencies that subsidize women’s lives.  Through that leadership, 80 percent of children are born out-of wedlock.  Kevin Samuels pointed out that it makes no sense for a woman to have a child with a man that has no real intentions of being with her.  These 80 percent of “Black” women are not divorced single mothers.  These women were never married to these men, yet gave these men the highest honor a women can give a man. 

Women Aren’t the Enemy:  Socially Awkward, Beta Males, and Incels

Kevin Samuels broadcast an episode of his digital TV show on January 30, 2020.  Twelve months later, he would enjoy global recognition and for his views on relationships and gender.  The episode was titled, ” Women Aren’t the Enemy:  Socially Awkward, Beta Males, and Incels.”  When Samuels’ attention shifted to women and the misconception they have in life, the world began to pay attention. The Kevin Samuels Effect focuses on the fact that women prioritize their jobs over their men as a race, and as individuals.  In modern women’s  minds, the prioritize their jobs, so they do not have to be vulnerable and dependent on men.  This is problematic for “American Descendants of Slavery (ADOS), because prior to 1965, “Black” people had the highest marriage rate in America (80%). 

“The Kevin Samuels Effect” represents the shock that modern “Black” women experienced after being told what they were doing wrong in their lives.  The main mistake “Black” women (and modern women, in general) made was following the Caucasian-led Feminist Movement.  Gloria Steinem has gone on record saying that she “believed” that “Black” women started the Feminist Movement, while it was women associated with Steinem who co-opted the Modern Women’s Movement and intervened in the affairs of “Black” women and the “Black” community… Soon afterwards, “Black” women realized that they had been used to advance the economic position of “White” women and responded by promoting their own wave of feminism.  When we look at  “Black” feminists like Barbara Smith,  Alice Walker, bell hooks, we see the way “Black” women entered a compact with segments of society who promoted White Supremacy under the guise of “Black Feminism.”

For the last five decades, modern “Black” women have said that their dating failures were “Black” men’s fault.  There were supposedly not enough qualified men for “successful “Black” women.  The problem was the way “Black” women defined their “success.’  Since it is men’s responsibility to choose most suitable women available, women bear some responsibility in their relationships success. 

Most Black” Women Are Overweight

The most overlooked aspect of “Black” women in America is their physical appearance.  Eighty-percent of “Black” women are overweight and women have not cared that “Black” men do not like women who are overweight or obese. 

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Are Modern Women Doomed and Destined to Die Alone?

July 12, 2022

All modern women are NOT destined to die alone, but many shall end up along because of their delusional expectations.  Average women think their jobs increases their value. They think men like their hair weaves, bad attitudes, and lack of femininity.  Since 80 percent of all children in the “Black” community are born to unwed mothers, many modern women have been taught that having a child out-of-wedlock does not affect marital prospects.  It took Kevin Samuels to explain that most men do not want to raise other men’s children. 

Women’s inability to properly measure their sexual market value (SMV) is what will keep most women single for the rest of their lives and the mainstream media encourages a lack of unity among men and women.  The rating system used by Kevin Samuels that scored women from 1 to 10 is not new.  Males have always been ranked by women, but it was never national news.  Modern women have the leverage of jobs, which allows them to exist regardless of their physical appearance or behavior.  When women want better outcomes, they are willing to accept the truth, which is what the book, “The Kevin Samuels Effect” by Muzahraf Fahim is about.  A lot of women have simply run out of time, so they may die alone.   Modern women have the option to live with other women, cats, or dogs.  Fish are an option also.  

Most people are average.  If women humbled themselves and embraced who they are, hope would exist.  Not miracles, but hope.  These outcomes are the result of the rhetoric that Caucasian feminist women sold “Black” women during the 1960s Feminist Movement.  Very little research has been published on the fact that the Feminist Movement was hijacked by Gloria Steinem and women like her with questionable times to the FBI and the CIA.  That story is in books, but people have not investigated that information.  We explained that information in a previous blog post below.  A book that contains this information is, “The World Split Open: How the Modern Women’s Movement Changed America” by Ruth Rosen (2006).

Those same tales are being told today, which is why women continue to have bad outcomes.  The older the woman, the more bleak the situation will be for them.  Modern U.S. society has told women that having a family is optional and it actually a hindrance to a productive life.

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The Kevin Samuels Video Archive Will Live Forever

July 12, 2022

Kevin Samuels had his own point of view, therefore, he combined his own style with the points that were being made by a specific group of scholars at some major universities.  The book, “The Kevin Samuels Effect” points out how the “Black” community was hijacked and driven into the ground fifty years ago. It happened before the 1960s, but we emphasize the last 50 years. That is why his point of view is bigger than an individual.  His information came from a number of men, and those points only count when they are truthful.  Modern “Black” women have been taught to reject the truth, which is why so many problems exist in the “Black” community. The Feminist Movement was infiltrated by a specific group of women and one of the achievements of that group was helping destroy the “Black” family.  Prior to 1965, “Black” people enjoyed the highest marriage rate in America. The Kevin Samuels Effect emphasizes the methodologies that were used in destroying the “Black” community. In order to destroy the “Black” community, all one has to do is destroy the traditional “Black” family unit.  People will never be able to change the significance of the traditional family unit. 

The modern “Black” women as been convinced that it is better to place her main focus on her job than “Black” men and traditional “Black” families. Thus, 80 percent of all “Black” children are born to single mothers. Women cheered en mass when Kevin Samuels passed away.  They failed to realize that his job has already been done, because he was successful at publicly addressing modern “Black” women’s behavior.  Everyone knows to point out the fact that man “Black” men are “short,” “poor,” “bald,” “fat,” and any other fact about a “Black” male that women want to point out. It was revolutionary to tell modern women why they were not getting the outcomes in life that they thought they deserved.  The problem was the fact that most modern “Black” women have a flawed estimation of themselves.  Women’s sexual market value (SMV) is overestimated by women, and Kevin Samuels pointed this out on a regular basis.  He also dispelled the false narratives that women propagate in conjunction with mainstream media and the billion dollar cosmetics industry.  It became a major problem when “Black” men began to point to the behavior of ” Black” women and reject associating with that type of negativity.  That is where the idea of the High Value Man came into play.  A man who is not doing anything productive will accept women’s bad behavior.  To their credit, most women want a man who is productive.  Everyone was already aware of the traits that many modern “Black” women are known for, but no one had seen video interviews of women confirming what was being said about their behavior and outlook on life.  In video after video, “Black” women displayed the bad qualities that they were taught by the leaders of the “renegade” Feminist Movement. 

Modern “Black” women are not aware that there were two Feminist Movements.  Women began accusing some women of being FBI agents and that issues has never been resolved in the 50 years the Civil Rights Movement. In the book, The Kevin Samuels Effect: The Exact Moment When Men Held Women Accountable Again for the Historical Decisions That Were Made, and Are Still Being Made, in Our Communities, Cities, and Nation, the correlation between women like Gloria Steinem and “Black” female feminists like Alice Walker, Michele Wallace, and Dorothy Pittman-Hughes. In the famous photograph of Gloria Steinem and Dorothy Pittman-Hughes both holding up “Black” power fists, this is where Caucasian women begin to become the wedge between “Black” men and “Black” women.  Caucasians had worked with “Black” people during the Black Power Movement, but they never tried to lead “Black” people in a cultural direction the way Caucasian women begin to do in the late 1960s.    People miss the fact that Gloria Steinem infiltrated the Feminist Movement. 

What does this have to do with “The Kevin Samuels Effect”?  The scholars that taught Kevin Samuels the truth about the Feminist Movement go much farther in depth that Samuels did.  The main damage the Feminist Movement and mainstream society did in convincing “Black” women that they were infallible and did not have to be held accountable for their actions.  Double standards became the golden rules for modern women. Women claim to be equal to men, whenever it is convenient for them. Every other time they are victims who are being taken advantage by a world unfairly controlled by men. The mainstream Feminist Movement told “Black” women it was their right to have children out-of-wedlock.  It can be, but Kevin Samuels reminded women that they lessen their chances to ever be married, if they are single-parents.  Most men do not  want to be with women who have children from previous relationships.

From Living Single to the Golden Girls

When we look back, the 1990s sitcom “Living Single” and the 2000s TV show “Girlfriends” were younger versions of the 1980s TV show “The Golden Girls.”  In other words, “Living Single” and “Girlfriends” were demonstrating that most modern women would end up single.  Males have always existed single, whether they ended up in single room occupancy (SROs) boarding homes or on the streets.  The phenomenon of high numbers of aging women was not explored when the modern Feminist Movement took over the “Black” community.  Planned Parenthood was there also, which helped reduce birthrates and the number of “Black” people in America.  Many modern women do not realize that they are going to end up in living arrangements like the “Golden Girls,” because they will not have the income to live on their own.  If they had husbands, their lives might have turned out different.  For women in what Kevin Samuels called, “the danger zone, (ages 36-60 years old), it might be too late.  Younger women see what happened  to modern “Black” women over the last 50 years and not buying into the same misandry (hatred of men). America  indirectly sponsors the Feminist Movement and encourages “Black” male feminization. Kevin Samuels pointed out these realities to modern women.

Running Out of Time

Slight Sleep Media published The Kevin Samuels Effect by Muzahraf Fahim on March 5, 2022.  The New York Times reported the passing of Kevin Samuels on May 7, 2022.  He actually passed away on May 5, 2022.  The whole time we were finishing the edits we knew something seemed strange.  Slight Sleep Media wanted to be the first to publish a book titled, “The Kevin Samuels Effect” and Muzahraf Fahim met the deadline.   A little over a year earlier, we reached out to Kevin Samuels to see if he might mention another book published by Slight Sleep Media.  They Killed Notorious B.I.G. by Sayeed Benin.  We did not receive a reply.  With how busy Samuels had been since his meteoric rise in December, 2020, we knew what was was happening.  In our minds, we figured Mr. Samuels might promote male-related content like Oprah Winfrey does with her own book club. 

The bad thing is the way everyone reaches out to people for favors when that individual reaches a high level of popularity. We were actually asking too much.  That is where we got the idea to have a book written about Mr. Samuels.  The segment of the population that deals with men’s issues is referred to as the manosphere.  Specifically, the “Black” manosphere for “Black” men.  We realized that it would be more responsible if Slight Sleep Media published a book about the phenomenon referred to as “The Kevin Samuels Effect.”  During the last few months before Kevin Samuels passed, he was being attacked for taking other people’s talking points and presenting them as his own.  He often gave credit, but sometimes he did not   His life went from 0 to 100 miles per hour and he may not have managed it in a way that satisfied everyone that he knew.

Slight Sleep Media realized that the phenomenon was bigger than Kevin Samuels himself, thus we knew to chronicle the effect of the message he was sharing. We realized that it was better to take the situation into our own hands at Slight Sleep Media.  Kevin Samuels made it clear that he was saying something that men often said.  The difference was the way the message took off on independent media.  There are at least three TV shows that feature women’s point of view in mainstream media.  In terms of independent digital media, others saying what  Kevin Samuels said message is widespread.  Mr. Samuels had a formula that that people gravitated toward.  His mixture of style and credible data made the difference. 

There are a lot of myths about men that feminism has the power to propagate throughout America and the rest of the world.  Mainstream media is heavily influenced by the Feminist Movement.  The Feminist Movement is a movement that never stopped making political gains.  The Civil Rights Movement and the Black Power Movement were neutralized.  The Feminist Movement is still making significant gains and we can see this in mainstream media on a daily basis.  The press or media are referred to as the Fourth Estate.  According to European tradition, the other three estates are commoners, the clergy, and the nobility.  Unfortunately, the media has become grossly biased against men.  If all chaos breaks out and America is attacked militarily, males will be expected to risk their lives and immediately go to war.  Kevin Samuels pointed to the way men are seen as utilities.  A man is measured by his usefulness, and “Black” men are not respected in America.  With The Kevin Samuels Effect, we knew that his message would become stronger as time progressed.  Kevin Samuels did something that clinical psychologists are known to do: he interviewed women on camera and showed the ways they were delusional.  His systematic way of verbally engaging with women was solidified in a way that became etched in the cultural lexicon of American culture.

The Academic and Scientific Facts That Feminism Overlooks

The mainstream media has never critically evaluated the miscalculations that were made on behalf of modern women.  Cultures around the world realize that men and women are different, not equal.  Males and females do not have the same biological reproductive limitations.   There is a core group of academic scholars that are the source of Kevin Samuels’ data and statistics. A few of those core scholars are Tommy J. Curry, author of the book, The Man-Not: Race, Class, Genre, and the Dilemmas of Black Manhood (2017) and T. Hasan Johnson.  Both of these men are professors at major universities and decided to risk their careers to speak the truth.  It was the combination of the data that came from major university professors, the COVID-19 pandemic, and the long overdue reckoning that addressed the damage that the Feminist Movement had been spearheading for the last 50 years.  The main myths shattered by data, facts, and statistics is the accusation that most “Black” men are in jail or gay. 

The Brookings Institute’s report, “The Black middle class needs political attention, too by Andre M. Perry and Carl Romer, was published February 27, 2020.  Perry and Romer wrote, “While there are many definitions for the “middle class,” this report will use the Brookings Future of the Middle Class Initiative’s definition: the middle 60% of households on the income distribution. By that measurement, middle-class families had incomes between $22,000 and $125,000 in the years (2013 to 2017) studied. Black people represent about 13% of the U.S. population, 61.2% of which are middle class.” 

The American Enterprise Institute published a report on June 26, 2018 titled, “Black Men Making It in America:  The Engines of Economic Success for Black Men in America.” According to the report’s authors, W. Brandford Wilcox, Wendy Wang, and Ronald Mincy, “More than one-in-two black men (57%) have made it into the middle class or higher as adults today, up from 38% in 1960, according to a new analysis of Census data. And the share of black men who are poor has fallen from 41% in 1960 to 18% in 2016. So, a substantial share of black men in America are realizing the American Dream—at least financially—and a clear majority are not poor.”  Critics questions a few percentage points, when the bottom line is that the common trope said that MOST “Black” men were under-performing.  “Black” men were used as the reason why “Black” women were failing to find husbands.  The main deception the Feminist Movement enacted against “Black” women was convincing them to overlook their biological clocks.  The American Medical Association (AMA) does not use the term geriatric pregnancy and prefers the term “Advanced Maternal Age.”

Women’s Biological Clock and the Emphasis on Prioritizing Careers

The modern Feminist Movement was covert.  Females never announced their manipulation of “Black” women, which turned out to be rooted in racism.  This is the sentiment shared by “Black” feminists themselves, which is why they opted changed directions and proclaimed themselves Womanists, et cetera. Modern “Black” women were misled by the Feminist Movement during the 1960s and 1970s.  The word “equality” was used against women by de-emphasizing the limited time frame in which human females can give birth to healthy children.  Feminists told women that having children was demeaning.  The Feminist Movement was hijacked by a specific group of Caucasian women.  No in-depth scrutiny has ever been launched against those women.  If fact, they are still celebrated. Why?  Because the feminist-based political action committees (PACs) that support them are have always been powerful.  The men who are a part of these women’s racial group have power and extend some of that power to those women.  It was ingenious for mainstream society to destroy the “Black” family by proxy (i.e. Caucasian women were used to make that happen).  After the American Cultural Revolution of the 1960s, law enforcement agencies used covert tactics to disrupt inner-city communities.  Abortions were made readily available, to go along with the abundance of feminist propaganda.  Millions of “Black” American women were indoctrinated by newly created women’s studies courses at universities around the country.  Workshops were conducted, telling “Black” women that they were being oppressed by their men.  At no time in history has “Black” men ever has patriarchal power on an institutional, personal, or socio-economic level.  The propaganda that was aimed at young women after the 1960s are clear. 

It was the Kevin Samuels Effect that showed women that they needed husbands for survival.  Usually, women are taught that the double-standard that they live by will cover them.  Women claim their independence, until they need something done. That is when they claim that they should be protected, due to their femininity and physical vulnerability.  For the last 40 years, women have been told what they want to hear, instead of what they needed to hear.  Women were told it was safer to fight for higher wages in the job market, than to face the vulnerability of needing a husband.  When we look at who taught women to embrace these ideals, it is clear that a high number of feminists do not like men.  Many feminists lesbians, as explained by the Combahee River Collective and their Combahee River Collective Statement. Regardless of what these questionable represented, women were never scrutinized their origins and ulterior motives.  Now, modern women are stuck in a bad position.  Whether someone is qualified to be called a High Value Man (HVM) or not, he must be the ultimate man.  Intelligent, moral, and ethical. Focused and and example of good character.  The Kevin Samuels Effect did a perfect job of providing another level of what the Black male image should be. Balance is the key.

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The Absence of Suspicion:  Female CIA and FBI Agents During the U.S. Cultural Revolution of the 1960s. 

June 22, 2022

Updated July 8, 2022

This is a point that many modern women will eventually learn to understand.  Their lives were hijacked by divisive ideologies that were being pushed in the 1960s and 1970s.  In fact, the people accused of hijacking the Feminist Movement have planted their philosophy and tentacles  in America’s consciousness forever. The Feminist Movement was infiltrated, just like the Civil Rights Movement and the Black Power Movement were infiltrated.  Two books are instrumental in explaining what influences the Feminist Movement was subjected to spanning from the 1950s, throughout the 1970s.  The World Split Open:  How the Modern Women’s Movement Changed America, Revised Edition by Ruth Rosen (12-6-2006) and Patriotic Betrayal:  The Inside Story of the CIA’s Secret Campaign to Enroll American Students in the Crusade Against Communism by Karen M. Paget (3-3-2015)  provide clues about the different types of surveillance that was used during the Cultural Revolution of the 1960s. Everyone is familiar with William O’Neal, an American FBI informant who infiltrated the Chicago chapter of the Black Panther Party in the 1960s. His counter-intelligence work was depicted in the motion picture film Judas and the Black Messiah (2021). 

The American mainstream media portrays males stereotypically and gives the impression that females are naturally better people than males, which is why the females who worked for the CIA and FBI during the Cultural Revolution Movements of the 1950s-1970s are widely overlooked. The World Split Open:  How the Modern Women’s Movement Changed America, Revised Edition by Ruth Rosen explained which females were accused of being FBI agents and way they responded to those accusations.  Anti-patriarchy is the historic backdrop for the modern Feminist Movement, yet female scholars have never drawn attention to what happens in U.S. society at the hands of female infiltrators, provocateurs, and co-conspirators. Because of that neglect, females are left in dark about what the origins of the Feminist Movement are. The current Feminist Movement is using the same foundation from the past, which is anti-male and especially anti-Black male, based on its origins with the early American White Supremacy Movement.  Modern women have been duped for the last 50 years.  They were taught to focus on college, jobs, and then traditional families.  LGBT advocates pushed alternative options that are incapable to having naturally-birthed children and pressed for disruptive behavior.  Mainstream media remained silent on the liberal left as women co-opted the Black Lives Movement and led it was a LBGT-based movement.  All the while, they used images of “Black” males to raise money and funnel it to predominantly LGBT organizations. 

The point is, The Kevin Samuels Effect represents the accurate data that exposes the lies the mainstream media allows to push.  Independent media exposed the deception that the modern Feminist Movement regularly promotes.

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The Way Women Are Ranked On A Scale of 1 through 10

June 17, 2022

Males have been ranked for over 50 years.  Females rank adult males according to their finances, height, and whatever other criteria they choose to use. With the phenomenon and after-mentioned also called The Kevin Samuels Effect, adult females have been regularly ranked based on their physical looks: fitness level, femininity level,  and physical attractiveness.  Kevin Samuels gave his interpretation of how women should be ranked physically on a scale of 1-10.  She is evaluated by her face without makeup, eyelashes, fresh out of the shower.  This is one of the topics that Kevin Samuels popularized.  Top modeling agencies have definite criteria for how women are supposed to ranked physically.  What was learned from Kevin Samuels since December 2020 was the way most women inaccurately rank themselves.  There is a difference between a subjective and objective ranking. Beauty can be considered subjective, but objective criteria is also real. 

In the last ten years, it is very difficult to see women without cosmetic additions like hair weaves or extensions, eyelashes, and makeup.  Additionally, many modern women (Americans overall) are overweight. For many “Black” women, they give themselves more leeway in the physical size category.  The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services is very clear about where people rank according to the Body Mass Index measurements. The issue is the way many “Black” females claim that BMI standards are based on European standards, which is not true.  Most adult “Black” females are overweight. Stats prove this fact, and we include some of that information in the book, The Kevin Samuels Effect.   

The world did not know exactly what women think, in terms of their own realistic physical beauty standards.  It wasn’t just a matter of being delusional: modern women failed to acknowledge the nature of the way their value decreases over time.  For example, 40 year old women are often as confident about their value as women half their age.  The level of delusion that many modern women have may have something to do with their inability to attract the males that they think they deserve.  In the last few years, women have shown how inaccurate they are about their physical looks, namely their weight.  A woman’s attitude is also very important.  Urban communities are not usually prone to focus on plant-based diets.  These issues are covered in the book, The Kevin Samuels Effect, further explaining the backdrop of where Kevin Samuels got his statistical information from.  Mr. Samuels educated himself about how agencies like Ford, Elite, and other top modeling agencies rank physical beauty.  We have learned that women do not like to be scrutinized, and the spotlight has been placed on the cosmetics and enhancements that women use to make themselves look better. Those things are fine, but they do not add to a regular woman’s Sexual Market Value.  In other words, beauty enhancements are not helping women get and keep husbands.  It appears that women are wearing cosmetic accessories like hair weaves and makeup for themselves, despite what men say they like.  We now know  that most women do not care what men like, because they have been even more vocal about it since the emergence of The Kevin Samuels Effect. It is time for women to know that the disagreeable attitudes that they are encouraged to have are a product of modern feminism.

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Strong Messages Are Known to Outlive the Messengers

June 16, 2022

This The Kevin Samuels Effect blog will be ongoing and extensive.  The book The Kevin Samuels Effect includes data and statistics that everyone should know. Please recognize the fact that Slight Sleep Media published Muzahraf Fahim’s book The Kevin Samuels Effect shortly BEFORE Kevin Samuels passed away in May, 2022.  It was known that the principles that Mr. Samuels presented was a universal response to modern Feminism. 

Women throughout the western world celebrated the demise of Kevin Samuels, without realizing the eternal nature of the truth that he spoke on some many occasions.  The information that Kevin Samuels is known for came from many different sources.  Others will try to interpret his message, but the truth remains and will never change.  The gender war is not over, because the contracts that enforce modern feminism continue to be used against men. The Kevin Samuels Effect represent the shift in covert modern feminism.  Now, it is clear what is happening in America.  Globally, feminism is used to undermine the traditional family unit.

The Kevin Samuels Effect represents the academic scholars who provided Kevin Samuels with the method to dismantle modern “Black” women’s use of feminist propaganda.  Since the 1950s, women were encouraged to spread negative information about men and their place in society.  The truth about modern women’s bad behavior has been suppressed for the last 50 years.  Men and women have been made mortal enemies by those who control modern feminism.  The truth that Slight Sleep Media calls The Kevin Samuels Effect has changed the trajectory of the modern Feminist Movement.  The reverberation of what Kevin Samuels’ conversations sparked is still rippling throughout the world.  This story is ongoing.

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The Failure of Modern Feminist Ideology

April 20, 2022

Modern feminism is a failing experiment.  Many women have lost the opportunity to enjoy fruitful lives, because they were deceived by feminist ideology.  When modern women are convinced to squander their prime years, everyone suffers.  Very little is said in mainstream media about the women behind feminism.  In the 1960s and 1970s, the people behind the destruction of the Civil Rights Movement and the Black Power Movement have been discussed.  The plots behind the way “Black” women were convinced to reject “Black” men are ignored by modern society.

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Summer 2022 Book Promotion

April 20, 2022

Promotion for the book “The Kevin Samuels Effect” will happen throughout the Summer of 2022.

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Bonus Information to the Book Can Be Found Here

April 8, 2022

Updated:  April 20, 2022

Bonus information for The Kevin Samuels Effect can be found here.  A lot of information was not included in the book, because the available data is extensive.  We put credible data in the book, and included source material.  Facts supersede opinions. Watch for regular updates.  The data in the book tells the whole story about the Women’s Rights Movement and feminism.  Politics is the issue, and the main point is overlooked.  Modern women want to be independent, and still take advantage of female privileges.  

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Legendary Men of the Past

April 2, 2022

The actions of legendary High Value (“Black”) Men of the past are unparalleled. There are no current “Black” men who have done what Thurgood Marshall and Adam Clayton Powell, Jr. did in their careers. The Civil Rights Act of 1964, Title VII allowed “Black” men to hold titles via quotas, Affirmative Action, et cetera, but what actions were taken in “Black” men’s high profile  jobs that integration legislation and desegregation made possible?  For example, what landmark legislation did Barack Obama or Eric Holder ever initiate and legislate that equals what “Black” men of past eras enacted? None.  The trend of claiming to be something that is not true began with Barack Obama, because he claimed to be “Black” and was actually half-Kenyan and half-Caucasian.

The legislation and legal claims that “Black” men filed in the early and mid-1900s is overlooked, In fact, most so-called High Value Men current do very little, in terms of community action. They may purchase a few school backpacks for neighborhood children, and deliver a great facsimile of a landmark speech,  but nothing major was ever going done by High Value “Black” Men, aka bourgeois “Blacks.” 

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Expectations and High Value Men

March 25, 2022

Updated: March 26, 2022

Men like Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr.  were highly active members of their communities.  They attended religious services and considered the well-being of their communities. If a problem occurred, they met with other community members in the community and figured out how to solve those problems.

There have been a lot of conversations about High Value Men in the media for the last few years.  At various points of time, especially during the mid-20th century (1950s-1970s), a number of “Black” men stepped forward and took legal action and filed lawsuits against American institutions.

Modern “Black” High Value Men are not anxious to file lawsuits against America.  First, it is expensive. Second, it may draw unwanted scrutiny.  Modern “Black” High Value Men are not on the same level as “Black” men from the past.

The question is this:  did Negroes from the past file various lawsuits against American institutions for their own benefit?  Once desegregation take place, Negroes became passive again. 

Many “Black” High Value Men have walked around like peacocks for the last 50 years. They strutted and pranced around after the struggle of those before them brought milestones that allowed them to thrive.  The modern “Black” man has not done his job. He has not stepped forward and effectively took action for the “Black” community.  They never did what Eric Holder never did what Thurgood Marshall did for “Black” people as an attorney. Holder benefited from what Marshall did, yet he never took a significant legal stance for the “Black” race. 

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Is The Gender War Over?

March 21, 2022

The “Kevin Samuels Effect took place December 20th, 2020. A video clip circulated throughout the internet showing a woman being visually rated on a scale of 1 to 10. That was the moment when “Black” men’s public image changed, because they broke  through the censorship barrier of mainstream media.  Can a ‘Peace Treaty” take place between men and women? Can negotiations between men and women bring men and women together? It can, but the legislation that the Women’s Rights Movement was able to push through on the local, state, and national level will not change.  Men and women can come together, until women become unhappy and do what they have been doing for the last 50 years.

Most women seek men who make more money than they make (Hypergamy).  If that women happens to leave her marriage, the current U.S. Court system has been structured to favor women for child custody, and the highest earner.  Most men earn more than their wives, so they take the biggest financial hit in a divorce.  Women can come to the table and negotiation with men to form marriages, but if those women get upset, the legislation that has been set up over the last 50 years to protect women punishes men. It does not matter how nice women intend to be, because the U.S. Court system determines what direction a divorce takes.  The National Women’s Political Caucus (NWPC) shapes Feminist legislation in America.  That is one group (PAC) that shapes public policy. The Feminist Majority Foundation (FMF) is another.  These are the organizations that control the relationships between men and women.  When they decide to allow men and women to enjoy better Family Court legislation, it will happen.

The “Kevin Samuels Effect” is the commercialization of discussions about intimate relationships and marriages, but that does not change the truth. The truth is the way marriage laws are matriarchal.   Women have power, because of what their lobbying groups have done with the support of established American politicians. 

Marriages will suffer, because of what has happened over the last 50 years. The Women’s Rights Movement is more powerful that any Gender Negotiations could ever be.  The research, historic facts, and data can not be changed, unless the data is falsified.  Accurate data has forced women to acknowledge reality and why marriages are not taking place anymore.   Modern women prefer college degrees and jobs, over the trust and security of being with men.  The mainstream media has taught modern women to not trust men for the last 50 years.  The Feminist Movement rose to power, to the detriment of traditional families and communities. The traditional family is the building block of the community.  Most women have already made their choices.  They decided to stay away from men, because  they were told that men were bad people.